Im afraid that I dont have a lot of experience with LTRs so this may come across as a somewhat dumb question. Also Ive only recently gotten into PU so this question only just popped into my head.

Im kinda in a position where im about to begin an LTR and my question is can you ever just stop being a PUA and relax? I know most people will tell me that I should be myself all the time and I am, for example being cocky is really a part of my personality so I use it to pick up.

However, when im in a relationship I tend to relax and sometimes show weakness in front of my gf, is this bad? For example, kissing her in public or telling her that I will miss her when I leave the country for a couple of weeks. Is this ok or does it make me look weak?

Hey there,

Well, in a relationship balance is the key, you can't be AFC all the time, but it's not bad to do so... You can't be more distant all the time, but it's not bad to do so once in a while, balance is the key.

Don't be afraid to tell the person who you love, you love her, but make sure it happens from a manly position, let her tell you 'i love you' first...

Apply the right mindset! If this one fails, there are many other girls out there, who can generate the exact same feelings as she can, she's not that special, it's biology! Be happy with what you have now, if something breaks ur value's, don't be afraid to point it out, or don't be afraid to tell what's on ur mind...

And the most important thing in my opinion, stop thinking that much and start enjoying!!

Have fun!

P1nkstar