| Okay, so;
I met this girl at a party, I texted her the next night and we hit it off.
We meet up and I asked her if she wanted to be my girlfriend on the first date.
She said yes.
We then went on two more dates,
Kiss on the first date
Then on the second date I escalated it to higher levels of kino like ass feeling, sucking on her tits, fingering her, etc.
I told her how wet she felt and she retorted with "Am I even wetter in here?" while shoving my hand into her panties.
~We were interrupted by a room mate after I fingered her, she seemed anxious to leave.
We went on one more date.
Nothing physical happened, except lots of French kissing.
Next date,
I took her to my beach condo, we started kissing, I took it to fingering and after that she said she wanted to go to the beach and I said okay, we wen't down to the pool and she said that she thought we were taking things too fast and she wanted to get to know me better, so I said okay that's fine with me.
Next two-three dates,
Nothing physical, except little pecks.
So one day I decided to push her away to see how she would respond.
I said we should break up, because she never told me she loved me (though she said it after each of our physical dates)
I said you can't have a relationship without love.
So she said "If that's the way you feel..."
I left her alone for a few days with no contact, she was PISSED and in a BAD MOOD everyday, signs of withdrawal from our relationship.
Anyway, I came back over to her house yesterday and she said I need some time, then I said okay, do you want me to leave, I started walking waking away and she said NO and pulled me in, then she said I don't want to break up with you, I just want to take things slower and not be so serious and get to know you better.
So here I am, wondering, what the fuck happened? How did I make such progress and then make so much negative progress to be right back where I started? Obviously, I didn't move too fast, but perhaps I didn't build enough comfort with her?
Anyway, she's a HB 10, young and... a VIRGIN. So I'm definitely staying with her until I crack this thing. She has ADHD and takes some kind of med for it, making her somewhat immature, she has a crazy imagination in her and she's still a child at heart, but I know there's a wild slut in her, she let her come out to me that first time when she made me finger her. How do I bring that out again and override her feelings of guilt, anxiety about loosing her virginity and opening up to me emotionally, etc?
Thanks.
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