| @Chel-Seems like this post peaks directly to your situation too with your gf(or ex-).
I had no reason for an LTR at that time since I was at a high in PU.
@Hakuna-Lol thank for breaking it down:what a friggin' paradox for real.
Either the beta male who gives excesive attention,or the alpha who gives less attention but stronger offprings.
Hey Hakuna,you're speaking directly to my situation(lol);when I met my gf,I was alpha,gaming heavily,independent,laying others,but it seems like my gf wa on some kinda mission to turn me into a beta-which she did!!
Emasculated the shit out of me(lol) to the point that is hard to think independently and just leave!
So Im showing more attention now,yet getting less respect and taken for granted as her attraction decreases for me.
Thats the catch 22 Hakuna's getting at.
When I'd first enter the LTR,I had total dominance,till laying others,showing less attention to the gf,she used to whine & nag and even cried about me not loving her-despite only being together 4 weeks at the time.
I was a semi-asshole/jerk,yet she still chased me and cried to me.
Fast forward 6 months,I give her all the attention,stopped laying other girls,chase her,dedicate myself to her,yet she's become all-out direspectful toward me,doesnt value me,doesnt cry to me as before,doesnt care to see me as much as when I as a jerk or I didnt care.
Hakuna,I get your drift.
My gf baically tamed me.
Now that Im tamed,nicer & more beta,she's lost attraction after few months of transforming me!
Another great point Hakuna is that men always seem to turn nice guy and beta when in an LTR.
It's a trend,and I've noticed it and that's why I wrote this posts.
@Solteris-Lol,agreed on women being contradictions.
I guess it's the irrationality in them.
And speaking of MILF's,my current gf of 2 years who's driving me crazy with contradictions,is a MILF(lol)!
I now realize that women dont really mature with age.
To me,it's like they regress.
My MILF gf is 40 years old,yet she's friggin super unstable when it comes to common sense.
Lol,I have noticed a trend of larger women(plumpers)marrying earlier and more.
I had the mind set that the smaller a girl's market(MILF,fat girl,ugly girls,etc.),the more they would treasure the guy who actually choose them!!
So I never thought my MILF gf would take me for granted and dumped me!!
She'd broken up with me about a week ago,but we managed to work it out.
But I say to myself,"bitch,you should be lucky Im with you when I could be gaming galore".
But it's like she knows that she'd emaculated me and turned me into a beta male,so she calls my bluff(indirectly),knowing that it'd be hard for me to just abandon her now.
Hey Solteris,I totally get the psycological- concept of Cognitive dissonance;very powerful.
My MILF does have kids,and Im beginning to see her interest lies in her kids & herself then Im at the bottom of he pole.
Nothing wrong with that-I guess.
Definitely exceptions to everything as you said Solteris. _________________ Most active PUA blog in the community since 2009.
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