Ok, sorry man, but I'm going to take a different approach here.

You were definitely controlling when you told her she shouldn't be in that situation during the Mardi Gras-type party. Think about it...how would you feel if you went out with your girlfriend to some party and she told you she wanted to leave because she was afraid of other girls hitting on you? Would you really be surprised if your friend told her to chill and let you have fun? Would you really think it was fair to have to leave because she was insecure about what other women may or may not do? And what if she got mad about it and caused a fight?

I don't know the particulars of your situation, but it sounds to me like you're using this whole peer pressure thing as a scape goat for the real issue at hand, which appears to be an insecurity with other men hitting on her. Maybe her younger friends are a bad influence on her, but she's a grown woman....you can't force her to act differently with her friends, and you shouldn't try. Trying to dictate who she can hang out with or repeatedly informing her that she has an issue with peer pressure is going to do nothing but push her away and make her resent you. Adults don't need to be lectured on what you think their problems are.

Now if she's trying to recapture her youth or something by partying with younger girlfriends who really are bad news, then you need to look at who this woman is and what her priorities are. Is that someone you want to be with?

Good luck.

@Camus154-Wow,wow,wow.

You definitely have the situation correctly.

That's exactly what happened;I out of insecurity,didnt want her to hang out with her friends.

So I voiced that and uggested we leave.

So maybe afterall,I am or was the problem.

I now accept that and realize that.

If she'd tried do that to me,I'd get really pissed too.

With that being said Camus154,where do I go from here?

Where does any guy go from here?

I know I have to work on my stuff:insecurities,trust,etc.

Sound weak,but do I go running back with apologies(which I did but got dismissed)?

Or do I just say,"she broke up with me,because I was the problem,so let me move on"?

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The situation isn't an easy one, because 2 years is an LTR also, the fact she's pregnant with your child, is a life changer forever.

A relationship can't go on with bluff's, you need to both settle it. I'd stand back a bit, you've apologized because you care, but your no mug! Just let her know, your sorry, and you was out of hand, and when she's ready, she'll speak to you. She should anyway if she has half a brain bro, you have a child on the way!

Always easier said than done, I know this from experience, we ca only try and support you, talk and make you feel better, but your feeling the emotions.

Any update since earlier?

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Much alpha thank Chel'.

But this' the scenario I dont want to be faced with:

During this break -up time[which she wants I can see],she ends up fucking random guy(s) then ends up getting screwed over and run back to me.

Hell no!!!!

I would never know truely,unles she'd admit,but no way in hell she can break up with me(be it my fault),screw other guys,then when she has enough,rings me back to get back together!!!

Under no such circumstance a guy should accept an ex- back.

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How long pregnant is she? Surely after a certain amount of time, they shouldn't be shagging?

An ex is an ex usually for a reason. You have yours here. Either it's sorted and she co-operates or walk bro, again, your no mug man!

If she wants play time, it's time to walk.

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She's about 3 months and change now.

Her belly isnt huge,she doesnt look overtly preggo.

So,she's still shaggable(lmao).

Seems to me she wants play time with the girls.

And I dont stop her from girls-night outs.

But over the past 4 weeks or so,she seems to want more time with the girls than with me.

Cool-I get time to sarge other girls so I dont stop her from girlsing.

As Camus154 eluded to;seems like she's going through some near mid-life crisis(since she's 40)where she wants to recapture her youth.

Cool-nothing wrong with that idea,but tell me and I'd understand.

But dont instigate shit to provoke a split so you can mess around.

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Women love to fuck around in their own way, just the way a load of men do, her loss is someone elses gain if it comes to it.

The bit I bolded seems normal, especially from an LTR. Women like all that, because they're comfortable, but being pregnant, most women would sit tight with their partner?

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You definitely get where Im coming from Chel'.

This is no time to be frigging around with girls bing 3 month pregnant.

No clubbing & Mardi-Grasing;you're damn pregnant.

Now I really know women arent rational creatures.

A pregnant woman should be trying to secure her pregnancy rather than hanging out with drunk friends.

Plus she should be trying to build our bond at such crucial time;not aiming to 'break up' and hang with friends and induce a miscarriage.

So where the F is her rationality!!?

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You definitely get where Im coming from Chel'.

This is no time to be frigging around with girls bing 3 month pregnant.

No clubbing & Mardi-Grasing;you're damn pregnant.

Now I really know women arent rational creatures.

A pregnant woman should be trying to secure her pregnancy rather than hanging out with drunk friends.

Plus she should be trying to build our bond at such crucial time;not aiming to 'break up' and hang with friends and induce a miscarriage.

So where the F is her rationality!!?

Hey guys,I want to close this thread rather than keep lamenting over BS.

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I get you bro, use the thread to vent your frustration out. Remember life's to short for regrets and stuff.

Your the mature one here, she needs to see this. There is having fun and "having fun".

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