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| mintbase | PostPosted: Wed Nov 24, 2010 1:26 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Mar 14, 2008 3:17 pm Posts: 77 | | Hello forum,
Just started dating a beautiful petite bengali girl and I we're planning to hang out all day Sunday in London.
I'm open to ideas about what to do.
My main concern is preventing the SPAM/emotional content drop as this is a weakness of mine in the relationship part of my development.
I'm an introverted person and I rapidly run out of things to talk about and girls tend to get bored.
Thanks,
Mint
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| Lorenzo321 | PostPosted: Wed Nov 24, 2010 3:01 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Nov 02, 2009 8:02 pm Posts: 180 Location: New York City | | One thing that I have to tell you is that you should be working on becoming more interesting as a person. Luckily you know your faults, so you could fix them sooner or later.
What you want to do is depend on the date (activity) to keep her occupied so that she does not notice that you are boring. Well that is a bad strategy dude! She will notice sooner or later and that will be the end of the seduction (unless she is a loser and has no better options). But all is not lost--you need to learn how to create interesting conversations. The best advice I can give you is to talk about things that you are passionate about and start reading more so that you can talk about things that matter to a normal person.
I know you may be saying that this is more difficult for you than another person because you are introverted. FUCK that. I am introverted too, but I know that a female must know who I am to be able to be seduced by me, so I make myself known. If this is a fundamental problem you are having, deal with it. Dont avoid it by covering who you are by what you are doing. . . _________________ (I LOVE THIS COMMUNITY!)
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| ariana | PostPosted: Wed Nov 24, 2010 5:11 pm | |
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| mintbase | PostPosted: Wed Nov 24, 2010 8:46 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Mar 14, 2008 3:17 pm Posts: 77 | | Lorenzo,
You've hit the nail on the head at the first attempt. Thank you for giving my a virtual kick up the arse!
I've been doing a super intense masters degree and I've realised that I've completely forgotten what my passions are. I'm so into the studing that I even find myself boring!
I'll take on board what you say about letting her get to know me.
Ariana, thanks for the date ideas. Really appreciate it.
Mint
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