it's not dangerous. you are the one that is insecure, not me. I don't have a car. I'm sure there are blokes everywhere with nice cars, I dont care, neither does my girl.

Just because he has materials, doesnt mean he is better than me.

Yeah Puaking u definitely have inner game and trust issues... You are very insecure with yourself and until you realize it you will keep thinking you need to keep her "in check". Stop being stubborn and think about it for a moment. Don't be afraid to take negative criticism as either way it will only make u better.
So back to GFs... The point is that you shouldn't need to keep her in check and just find a different girl if you had to... She will cheat on you either way if all she will go for is a guy with a better car. Don't let your insecurities take over you; do you seriously believe that all you can offer this girl is a car?

wow talk about debate! i agree completly with lastwolf arguement. PUAking be honest with yourself you see your girl more as a fuckbuddy nothing wrong with that more then a girlfriend.... relationships are all about trusts if u cant trust your girlfriend then your pretty much screwed and lastwolf is right with the fact that he lets his girl can go to parties sure guys will flirt with her BUT they can do that ANYWHERE and if you cant trust your girl to go to parties then how can you trust them in different scenarios?

I dated a girl from Boston while i lived in NJ out of all my relationships she was one of the best but in order to keep it going i had to trust her completely and even though we broke up my fault entirely im glad i experienced the relationship with her

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You keep getting pissed when people ask you why you are with this girl in the first place.

To make things clear right from the start, I fully agree with everything that has already been said by others (especially TheLastWolf's posts).

You know what I think? She's your girlfriend only for the purpose that you need a "title" to feel good about yourself in front of others. You want the girlfriend title because that's how much you're insecure about yourself.

However, I'm not here to purely insult you. First off, you gotta let go of your beliefs that your GF will cheat on you unless you "keep her in check" or however the hell you guys phrased it. Whether or not she cheats on you is irrelevant, because you will lose her whichever way if you keep acting jealous and extremely controlling.

Oh, and she'll more likely cheat on you if you're acting like that. Or break up with you.

You gotta handle your trust issues and (*putting emphasis on the following part*) work on your inner game. Big time.

I'm an open minded person... you guys are right. I hope you guys are telling the truth when saying "not to be so controlling, cuz my g/f will cheat on me." If that's the case, then yeah, I will trust her and let her do her thing... be less controlling. I hope that won't come to bite me in the ass though, I'm trusting u guys lol.

The reason I have a g/f... I'ma be honest, I'm the type to have multiple g/f's. Yeah it's messed up, especially the fact I don't want my g/f's cheating on me, but that's the truth. Maybe I'll settle down with just 1 if I really like her, but right now, I'ma keep testing around.

Anyways, so when a girl tries to make you jealous, you act like it doesn't bother u right?

bro theres nothing wrong with that you remind me of one of my friends his personality is just like you.. The jealously thing you have to show a little discomfort with that.. otherwise she will keep doing it and she will take you for granted but make sure you dont make a big deal and be like "im sorry i really like you and i cant help but feel a lil jealous... i kno its stupid of me.." Girls love hearing that they love to feel special, important and loved of course loyalty will come naturally

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Yep, and call her cute when she tries.
"Aw thats so cute, you're trying to make me jealous"

Thanks guys. I'll show some discomfort, but not to go overboard with it.

If she's trying to make ya jealous take it as a dlv on her part. It's all good amigo, it's all push pull keep that frame. The rare times you guy do chat will give her plenty for her imagination to entertain herself with. Save any relationship talk for right after or during sex, when they're at their weakest. Sound cruel but they're emotional creatures remember you gotta incorporate them in a deep way. As long as you fuck her good and whenever she's with you she feels relaxed you got nothing to worry about. Just keep growing and learning on a personal level that way if you out grow her you'll be able to leave if things do get bad. Hope this helps.

PS Don't let the rope go slck.

if you are a nice guy and you treat your gf well (including trusting her which you do because you value and respect her) and she has feelings for you, she will not even be attracted to Johnny, regardless of his looks, car, cash, game etc he is no danger at all

girls know these johnny guys can be found anywhere and we can see them coming a mile off

puaking, based on what you told us about yourself so far, imo any girl would ditch you for a guy like Johnny because you are controlling and disrespectful and dont make your gf feel special, trusted or valued. you are just a pua and if she can find another pua with more money/car/looks why wouldnt she - i think you are threatened by Johnny because you know that you are no better than Johnny....

But, if you are a decent guy who knows how to make your gf happy and valued, why would she want to be with a pr1ck like Johnny?

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