Hello guys,

I'm getting into a LTR, it's a good girl and i know we are a match...

I'm just curious on ppl's opinion on using PUA stuff after you decide to have exclusive sex with eachother (relationship point)...

Would you drop it? and become the genuine you, and only use it to get the girl...?

Would you use it to keep the attraction spike's (which is what i'm planning to do)

anyone has experience on this topic? cause i'm new to it, and would love to hear some possible sticking points ...


Cheers!

If you are not being genuine during the dating phase, you need to learn the difference between playing games and having game. Nobody wants to continue dating a person who is totally different in a relationship than they are in regular life.

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But you DO act differently in the flirting stage than you act in the relationship stage, you do change your persona somewhat from getting her interested to keeping her attracted to you...

Basically, you need to keep the interaction fun and interesting, keep doing novel things (there are some great lists of crazy date ideas out there that can only really be attempted by people in an LTR, like waking up early to see the sun rise on the beach then sleeping on the sand all day etc etc) and being social, because nobody wants to be like those married couples who lock themselves away for the rest of their lives. And you need to make sure you don't turn into a guy who just does whatever he's asked, whenever he's asked, because his girlfriend asks him. Just utilise the social skills you learn from PU and build a deeper understanding of each other based on trust instead of purely attraction, and your LTR should go its full course.

Also, don't forget that there are other girls out there. If something's changed in your relationship that can't be fixed or you strongly feel the need to move on, you're allowed to do that too.