Basically I've been seeing a girl since the start of this term...I like her and am about to make it official sometime soon...we haven't has sex yet, but I know it's now on me to decide when we do it...

My problem is I really hate pubic hair, I mean it just turns me right off, every girl bar 1 I've slept with has been shaven, maybe its just because I'm used to it, but that's the only way I like it...but I've never had to get a girl to do it for me before.

So my question is, how the fuck do I get her to shave it off, it's not wildly out of control, she's trimmed, but I need zero hair down there...so really hoping someone can help me out here? My current thinking is just to be direct and be like "it's just gotta go"....but I just don't know...

Yeah, you and me both bro.

If you come up with a way, let me know.

I mean, normally girls have no problem with that... But the strong willed feministic girls that I normally find have issues.

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Idiot advice : Get crabs , give them to her, forced to shave

i agree i have to have my girls 100% clean down there. if you dont mention anything then it will bug you so much and wont work out. if you ask her she might shave it or get mad and you guys are done. in my opinion you might as well ASK her cause you have nothing to lose cause i know i wouldnt touch a girl whos anything more than smooth.

Shave each others off, kinda fun and unique suggestion just dont make a big deal of it and do it in the moment not out the blue when your watching TV lol, when it's done really really really compliment how amazing she looks, infact go crazy about it and chances are she will keep it that way.

Obviously you have a slight dilemma here if you haven't slept with her your gonna have to a few times first 'au natural', just be sexually adventurous as that sets the tempo and doesn't make the idea seem odd when suggested, actually suggested would be the wrong word since it would probably be bad to 'ask permission' lol just dont make it a big deal and do it!

Couldn't agree with you more!! You gotta keep it fun and don't make a big deal out of it. It's really not that big of a deal - it's just hair. Make sure you tell her how much you are into her body to begin with and then say it just feels really cool when your both shaved. Hopefully you guys have fun. Good luck bro!

Personally, I like a little bit of hair. Not a 70s playboy bush or anything, but just something to remind me I'm fucking an ADULT!

Depending on how underhanded about it you want to be, you could ask a friend to say how much he hates his girlfriend having hair in front of her. But thats only if you don't want to talk to her yourself.

Agreed haha.. It's also pretty stylish when it's trimmed to a little shape. Every chick goes bald..boring....Be Creative....

Advice:

Neg her on it, make a little playful joke, she should get the hint.

"wow, I didn't know hair grew down there, you've gotta let me touch it....ewwww" an then smile

From there it should be easier to tell her to cut it, if she doesn't get the hint

You could also try the, " your pussy would look amazing shaved" line


Just remember, it's only hair


Fuze

k my bf wanted me to do this, i didnt much want to, thought it looked wierd, like a little girl....he never put pressure on me but he asked me to quite a lot, so cos i love him i certainly wanted to make him happy and in the end what swung it for me was looking at other girls (which i dont normally make a habit of) on the internet to see what i thought looked more attractive, and i was forced to agree that bare looks better, so now i never looked back

i guess if she is resistant you could ask her the reason why she doesnt want to ..it might not be the reason you think, and if you understand why she feels that way,, then it may help you change her thinking

plus you can point out that its not like it wont grow back if she hates it

but personally once i did it i found sex felt nicer so you could add that to your argument...i think she should at least try it one time and see....but then you could apply the same argument to your own preferences??? maybe you could try it her way once if she agrees to try it yours???

anyway if she wants to shave the best razor i find for this particular area is gillette venus embrace - you could buy her some of this kind - you dont need shaving gel/foam for this kind, its by far the best i tried

also btw you dont have to shave...you can wax, it hurts a bit... but the effects are sooo much better and long lasting....and you could pay for her to get it done....?

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