I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now. She is outta town vacationing with her family and friends for three weeks. It feels like she has gotten really cold on this trip and its a huge frickin turn off when she acts like that. So my question to you guys is how to I get things interesting again, like when she is here?

It just sucks I am here taking care of her 5 dogs and she is on vacation - I feel like a damn maintainence man at this point. It's not about being whiny puss cause she is gone. I want more than what I am getting.

Thanks Fellas.

Getting the cold shoulder is a hard thing to deal with man. But don't assume she's doing it on purpose. It could just be because she's out doing things and is really busy and can't get into a lot of details about her day. I would just tell her that you miss her and that you can't wait to hear all about her trip when she gets home. Also, plan something for the both of you when she gets back and let her in on it but don't tell her what it is! It's a good way of making her think about you because she has no idea what is going on and will want to find out. I don't know many women who don't like surprises.

Remember, don't act needy. Just stay busy and you'll be alright. It's ok to be AFC, but only occasionally. Less is more I like to say.