Ive been living the pua lifestyle for nearly a year now with an alright sucess rate , Its nice and all but i want sex on tap .

I have found a girl and we've been seeing eachother regularly for a few weeks she is no way a oneitis because we both like eachother.
Note : I havent been in a relationship since i was 14 ! ( so I am clueless)

So yeah how would you ease into a relationship ?

How do you keep things fresh ?

What do you do apart from shag each others brains out and watch films ?


Any general advice realy.

I don't know if this is the right section

Cheers x

firstly, if you are entering a relationship for "sex on tap", then i think you are doing it for the wrong reasons. i actually don't believe you. i think you are just saying that for fear of not looking cool enough or masculine enough by wanting to be in a relationship.

in my opinion you ease into a relationship by becoming exclusive to eachother. you and her may or may not have a discussion about it, but generally the relationship starts when you agree to not pursue other people for the sake of the other. if you genuinely want to be in a relationship with a girl, then i think you should want to be exclusive with eachother.

i think you keep things fresh by keeping the pua aura about you. it helps to maintain certain habits but to drop others. it should be pretty obvious which ones you should drop. keeping things fun and interesting with a little bit of mystey definately helpss things stay fresh. for example, just bringing her out on a date and tellig her how to dress, but not telling her where you are going.

to answer your third question, if you bang eachother too much right away you will get bored of eachother. i suggest you find ways to relate to girls other than through sex. don't be afraid to be a lil AFC once in a while. it helps her feel like she's actually in a relationship with you, and not just being picked up by you. this should come natural if you have a genuine interest in what SHE can get from the relationship, not just what YOU can get from it.

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I think youve hit the nail on the head there on a few things I have said
Just how I like my answers Brutally true with no b\s cheers

I liked the answer. I guess thats what one might want to do to be in a relationship, because a time will definitely come when you are going to run out of routines and PU materials(after successful f close) but you still want to be around that girl.. that is the time your real self has to come out. She wants to know that you are a great human being. That is also the time when other things like your job (financial stability) or your dreams in life may start to matter a little bit. The most important part of being in a relationship is to know when to reveal the PUA side of yourself and when to be a bit AFC, the right balance it the key here. Personally, I would rather be known as a highly successful person who can get and keep the girl he wants rather than being labelled as PUA, but again thats just me.