It's impossible for any of us to give you some advice.. as everything you say is onesided.. There isnt much we can do, except give you general advice and then you use that in your situation and figure out what to do.. Afterall you have been with her, you are the only one here who knows her.. Just take it cool, be in peace with yourself and her.. dont hate her.. and you will figure out what to do by yourself. you can do it by yourself

Dude, this girl likes you... She might not know it but either she likes you but wants to be single since she's in a new town OR... the other possibility is her friend had a crush on you and lief to you about her friends feelings...

Good luck

Dude, this girl likes you... She might not know it but either she likes you but wants to be single since she's in a new town OR... the other possibility is her friend had a crush on you and lief to you about her friends feelings...

Good luck

Its actually funny you saying the friend has a crush on me. I went to highschool with her friend and she had a huge cruh on me(she was really shy around me she never told me but im not stupid ). Then se moved to another city to study, so i didnt see her for about 2\ years.When i meet my ex girl she was the one that introduce us, and even give as a push because we almost didnt hook up, my friend had already mention me to her friends and my ex on her first year of university(saying I was a big crush on High school ). So my ex need it the aproval of the friend ofc she said yes she is dating and also it already pass 2\3 years. I thought about that Bmitchell1876 but she already helped me so many times why fuck now, they are also best friends.
My girlfriend yes she is not being coerent but maybe she is just bitch who wants attention. I have to say that I was a complete AFC to her on the relantioship giving all the attention she wanted(mistake), and at the beginnng almost begging to take me back and overnight i just stop all my actions to try win her back, maybe that the only reason she is doing that Who knows girls are hard to figure. What should i do next?

Keep doing EXACTLY the same thing... She's not going anywhere... Play da game!! That's why we are all here ...

So you are saying I shouldnt cut my connection with her, should continue going out with her friends and her and ignore her and play the game, isnt hard to do that since she already know alot of my tricks? And should i play it cool like her presence dont bother me?

my general rule with ex's is that you should keep your distance. an ex is an ex for a reason. my only exception to this rule is if you can use the ex as a pivot for something else (like her friends), but your case (and most cases) this does not seem emotionally feasible. you clearly still have feelings for her. i say you keep your distance and ignore her existence.

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Update:

After the threat she make, that was not going to be a cofee , broke contact as usually i resume my life, she called the other day, saying she was on my neighbour having dinner with a friend , and if i would like to go for cofee. Ofc i said no I came up with a lame excuse she insist once again, but still said no.

Well guess is going to be a cofee what should be my behaviour,Iknow i cant talk about the breakup ,should i be unresponsive and be a bit boring of her conversatoin, or should i go play the game, the problem she already knows alot of my game. Im seeing with this girl the more I push the more she wants me.

to carlos. ive been in a similar situation but the breake up was through sms. anyways same thing after a while she calls and sends sms to meet up. i said no for how many times i cant remember. but end of it all i took her offer. i acted as my usual self and the weird thing is she told me i changed. maybe being just your normal self like being with your good buddies can get you more clues or maybe the answer you are looking for.

zpncc: how did end things with here?

Update:

I had a cofee with her friend, but my ex went to meet us to a pickup a thing but stayed there minutes and was kind a bitch with me and her friend" saying what the hell did you guys talk so much, Btw we didnt talk about her"

Later both of friends said it would be best to leave us so we should talk.So i was kind trapped had no fucking choice to have that talk.

Well she said that she felt I was still in loved with her(ofc i denied and play with the situation). that my reactions of ignoring her and misstteading her was only to ask attention( which kind is true), that i was differnet I was always nice to others girls but not to her. that I done A B and C to make her jealousy (which btw was complete lie), Said that i was a jackass in the end of our relationship. but wanted to be my friend (which kind is stupid since she knows i like her what a bitch, wants to use) . Said she didnt feel anything for me.So I played a bit mock and shit neg her couple of times , and she shit test me, " we talk about relantioships in summer dont how it stated and why but she pulled, and i was like Im single but on the pray. and she was like "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND" ofc im not stupid and was like good for you hope he treats you well" and she responds i was kidding no boyfriend. I feel that thing was to fuck with me, and she said she doenst have feeling but she wants to create jealousy in me. Ok after the conversations i was like ok i have no fucking choice i do this girl a PivoT which is nice since she is HB8 just hope she doesnt fuck with me on that department.

There's always a choice.As dumb as it may seem,I would have left right then and there ! A face to face conversation is a killer when you are emotionally vulnerable.