Hey guys, recently split with my GF, yesterday infact.

We have had little contact, she loves me, and I had love for her but not in love for her, so I broke it off.

She's been abusive swearing I've just kept my kool, would like to see her but probably not a good idea just to speak and ease things.

She's told me to f off so just left it, would you say just leave it? I like her, great person, just no spark anymore, distance is bothering both of us and I don't think she's not for me, so better calling it off now rather than later. Her family's nice and like me, mine like her, so I'd like us to stay friends but she says she can't because how she feels, although again she isn't someone I want to just drop from my life.

Any opinions? Not often in this situation, if I split with a girl usually want nothing to do with them after.

Thanks

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Honestly dude she's probably right... You are gonna have to leave it alone for a few months before you can talk without fighting... I really don't believe you can be platonic friends with someone after a relationship... But I know some people make it work, although I suspect one of the people are secretly in love with the other...

B inut your case I would definitely say leave it alone for awhile whilst she cools off...

Thanks man, was thinking the same, she's in love with me, whilst I'm not so probably my best bet, just feel bad that I've hurt her because she's a good person, but I couldn't carry on feeling how I was, knowing I'd hurt her at a later date, whether it be ending it later, cheating because I'm not happy or whatever, so I manned up.

Thanks

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I had a girl once I dated from the time I was 17 - 21 years old... Started to feel the same way about her so I did the right thing and broke up with her... I felt terrible for months afterwards cause I WAS friends with alot of her family as well... It literally was the hardest breakup ive ever had to do and that was because I really didn't have a good reason other than "she wasn't doing out for me"...

7 years later I came back looking for her cause I realized the world was full of insecure crazy women with "daddy issues"... We have been married for 5 years now and we both agree that we wouldn't be this happy or satisfied to this day without that time apart to realize "what we had"

Anyway without sounding like a cheesy love story the point is, if you respect let her go now she most likely will want you for many years to come.... Why? Because that's just the way out works.... I didn't make the rules, I just follow them !!

Nice man, I'm happy how it turnt out for you.

Maybe it will be a blessing, my situation resulting in a good future. This girl is great though but as I sad, no spark, and don't want to string her along.If she gets with someone else, I hope they make her happy, because I wont feel great because she's a great girl.

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