i know what your saying, im just a mess and dont want to let go, its not like i dont love her anymore, it makes me sad because of how close we were but life wont let us get along

i am having such a hard time letting go.. some times im fine, but then 10 mins later im a crying wreck, and wished it all never happened, the worst part is i know i can have her back if i wanted to, and i know in the past that is what has happened, its easyer getting back then going through all this pain but not easyer in the long run

i have made the decision to stop talking to her... its going to be weird cos we have talked all day everyday for nearly a year. i want her back so bad, but know its wrong.

UPDATE!!

hey guys its been 2 weeks since the break up, i am actually feeling really good!
alot happier so far in day to day life, and excited to start leaning again and get back into the game!!

Bravo my boy! Bravo! You have absolutely made the right decision...

I just wanted to mention one thing: DO NOT FEEL GUILTY OR SHALLOW BECAUSE YOU BROKE UP OVER SEX!! I don't care what your local preacher says... Sex is a HUGE pay of a relationship and of the sex isn't working then y'all aren't working... Also DO NOT hesitate to tell other girls that you broke up with her cause "she was lame in bed"... Now don't get me wrong there's a big difference in saying I broke up with her cause she" wouldn't put out and I broke up with her cause she was a"prude"and "unadventirous" in the bedroom... Just state it as a simple fact: I'm a guy and I need top notch sex...period...end of story..

Not only is this a more honest answer it wiill set the expectations for the next girl you date!

Once again congrats... I know that shit is hard and will bring any guy with a heart t tears but as men we have egos and sex is a big part of filing that ego appetite...

Good luck!