what if she starts ignoring you and not responding?

Why are they doing that and how do you go on about this to create attraction?

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Silence/ignoring usually means that a break up is on it's way. Only thing to do is to ignore them back, the more you try to get in contact with them the more nails you'll be hammering into the relationships coffin.

Of course she could've broken her phone or something.

Is this always the case? Do they mean breakup when they are ignoring you or giving you silence?

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openMinded,

After reading some other posts of you I think you're about to break up.
Problem with this is that in another post you say that you need her around you.

Anyway, if this leads to a break up. Make sure you break up first. No matter what you think, break up first. If want to make things work out later, you need to take control of the situation. Why?

1. She will be more likely to work things out with you.
2. She will think you are more powerfull and less needy (alpha).
3. You won't be sat up with this 'great demorilizing feeling that you fucked up'.

I see in your posts that you're too openMinded, in order to be a great person/partner/pua you should probably be more alpha. I do like that you care.

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You need to find out WHY she is giving you the silent SPAM. Have you done something to piss her off? I give my boyfriend the silent SPAM when he pisses me off and most of the time, he gives it right back to me. Which of course INFURIATES me because I'm supposed to be pissed off at him so why is he ignoring me?? When he does this, I am the one to give in and break the silence by apologising. Another thing he does to get us back to normal is joke around with me and guage my reaction. If I continue to ignore him, he continues to joke around until he breaks my shield. He will then ask me what's up and if I want to talk about it.

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Hey Requeza,

Thanks for your honest response. I really appreciate it. You're making quite a rapport with me here. I'm flattered ^^ .

Yes. I agree with everything you say, and I think that is what I am going to do.

I'm going to give her back the silence test. We're not a relationship yet, so I don't think we can break up? LOL

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

Good point. So what's the best way to find out why a girl is ignoring you?

I would think the most obvious is just go up to her and say "Why are you ignoring me?" but let me know if this isn't the best.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

That approach could put up her defenses. If you know she loves you, she's probably busy. Just give her space until she contacts you.

If not, break up with her first.

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The break up with her first advice is on the money. I was in the same position with a girl I'd been seeing who went quiet on me and knowing what was coming, I really wish I'd got in there first. That way, it's pretty likely I'd have still been getting great sex with a hot, younger girl!!

Yah, she's going quiet on me too >.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"