I'm 21. I'm a college student. 8 months ago I went through a terrible breakup, and I just began seeing a HB 10 girl a month a go. My ex was a 7 at best. I have come along way as PUA and in my single time I was at the point that girls were literally calendar reminders in my iphone. If you've been on this board recently you have read my post about dealing with my current GF's sexual past. Anyway, I'll get to the point.

I had a convo with a friend today who just graduated college and we were talking about what we wanted in our lives, he had just broken it off with a casual fling of a few months. It gave me some perspective. When my current gf and I started dating her ex was still kinda around, long story short he was fixing her parents car. Anyway I kinda saw what he was going through after loosing her to me, and I felt for him because I had gone through that 8 months ago. Earlier tonight I was looking at some of my girls Facebook photo's b/c i was missing her and stumbled upon one of her and her ex ( the one fixing the car) at a 311 concert with a caption reading (311 concert summer after freshman year). Two days ago I bought us tickets to go see 311 b/c its our favorite band, but just one year ago her other bf was doing that. Just one year ago I was taking my ex to a show. Basically what I'm saying is in the past few days I stepped out of my shoes and looked at my and other's love lives with clear eyes and an objective perspective and saw a vicious cycle. I remember a friend saying to me upon news of my new relationship "See you in a year when you break up"


Fuck.

I'm feeling like there is no point expending any effort and money into this relationship b/c I believe there is nothing I can do to stop this cycle and eventually we will come to a cross roads where we break up upon graduating or a sour relationship. I feel like I should just save myself the pain and misery of another break up now. But at the same time I'm falling for this girl more and more, she's beautiful, fun to be around, my friends love her, This girl pretty has much everything a guy can ask for besides a humble sexual past.

Does anyone know where I'm coming from?

Well in every relationship theres a leap of faith! the cycle happens alot but you will never find the right girl for u if u dont try!

So just enjoy it n dont stress over the future, n if this girls as good as u say then things r looking good anyway so why wud u think its gonna go bad! after the initial honeymoon period it takes work, so work at it n make it great! people get lazy in long term n thats why it dies!