but it's baggage you'll never be rid of. some can handle it. some can't. if you can, more power to you.

An immature chick with baggage because she didn't lose her virginity to the lead singer of greenday will grow out of that baggage... this is a new mindfuck every time. think of it as the ultimate AMOG hanging over your shoulder.

the other drawback is the "mother vs lover" switch. her guilt of not giving you enough time will balance with her guilt of not giving the kid enough time (this is subconcious, she most likely will not admit it) will always be weighing over your relationship. you also run the risk of her "mothering" switch being extra sensitive. and nothing kills her attraction to you like her mothering you because your simply there at the same time she HAS to be a mother.

lool, i'm not trying to talk you out of it. just go in with both eyes wide open. one of my most forfilling relationships was with a single mum. it was also on the short side, because I didn't know how to balance being supportive (her son was diag'd with autism) and still being the lover. it's a LJBF dive i took willingly tho.

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