If your gf tries to make you gelous, or is saying to you an innocent lie just to get more attention from you, what should you do? Should you ignore her(act indiferent) or should you give her more attention?

After you answer this I tell you what I did in a real sitation.

Depends on how YOU feel about what she did.

If it pisses you off you should define the boundary. Women need you to establish boundaries for them (they are not mind readers). You are the male and it is your job to lead the interaction, However you should do it without being reactionary. It's really a shit test on her part.

-R

The thing I did was to ignore her, I told her I know exactly what she wants to do.
She was a little upset so she used on me this tactic. She told me "I am busy...I am with a friend"... I said to her "what was the reason for this innocent lie? if you wanted to go out with me you should only ask for this and I will accept, but what you did made me only ignore you" she replied "I only wanted you to beg me to come out". The conclusion I told her was that things like that will only push me away from her. I told her toapologise, and to promise me that it won't happen again.

The words weren't exacly these, but the idea is the same.

Any opinions? What do you think about this?
Thnaks.

it sounds to me like you over reacted a lil bit. i would just very confidently and somewhat unreactively say that i don'y appreciate her playing games like that at this stage in the relationshp. maybe add that she can feel secure enough w/ you that she doesn't need to do that sorta thing. this is similar to qualification.

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Maybe I always overreact to much, if i catch her with a lie.
Not a very big lie or something like cheating on me(that would be very extreme).

But she told me that she passed all the exams, and I knew this for about half of year.
Also she told me "don't fail any exam even if you are at a harder University, because I passed all my exams". And I found out that she failed almost every exam.

How should I react to such a lie, when she promised me that she wouldn't lie to me again(from the last lie)?
How would you feel to know that for so long you were lied?

She told me that she didn't tell me about failing her exams, because we were at the beginning of the relationship, and now she lief to me that she passed every exam just to motivate me to pass all of my exams too.

How would you feel to know that for so long you were lied?

Pissed off Alpha.
This girl can't be trusted, get rid of her. If you can't trust her to tell you the truth with small 'stuff', how can you trust her with the big things in life?

She told me that she didn't tell me about failing her exams, because we were at the beginning of the relationship, and now she lief to me that she passed every exam just to motivate me to pass all of my exams too.

Yeah right, don't fall for this. You really do need to get this girl out of your system.

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I also think that it's odd to tell somebody not to fail their exams.