| Title is a little misleading. I recently split with my ex after roughly 6 months, she cited that we were just "different people" or "didn't get along". Kind of a bs excuse but she had a lot going on in her life, we were long distance most of the time, and I was becoming more unhappy with myself which changed my demeanor. We had a lot of petty squabbles. But that's not what I'm gonna go into detail about.
When we split, we did so on friendly terms. More specifically, she said to "make no assumptions about us", meaning, we're not just going to get back together or expect things from eachother. I'm cool with that, almost. TBH I would rather have her as a FB since that's kinda how we started out. Hooked up at a party and got along well enough, built attraction and trust, her friends thought I was good for her, they almost guided my meat in themselves, and within less than a week of seeing her we were banging at every opportunity. So what's the deal? Here's the deal.
We still text like everyday, I always drive her out to my friend's parties, she's always down to go with me and will even get a little upset if I suggest she can't go. She still gives me shit & petty squabbles with me if I don't do something that I consider a bf would do. I haven't vocalized that because I'm not trying to send her the wrong signals, but she's sending me wild shit.
Lastly: still get some of the body language cues but not enough for me to confidently act on. She is the type of girl who expects others to go after her & read her mind (she suggests), but in practice she was on my Johnson and initiated because my game was that tight.
So why don't I just do what I would normally do? I'm not trying to play my cards that I still want her, otherwise she'll feel like there's pressure and that I'm only hanging out with her because I'm trying to "reignite the flame", when I'm really just trying to get a nut like the old days.
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