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| Checkfigure1 | PostPosted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 7:49 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Nov 09, 2009 10:12 pm Posts: 108 | | Instead of trying to win every
argument, learn to pick your battles
wisely!
You can’t always have your way in
a healthy relationship. If you always want
things your way no matter what, then take
a moment to do some serious thinking and
ask yourself if all the little things
that you are unwilling to be flexible
about are more important than your
relationship. If you think they are, then
do yourself a favor and end the
relationship before you waste any more time –
both your own and your partner’s.
Learn to prioritize your wants,
and learn to prioritize your partner’s
wants according to his or her desires
as well.
If something is low on your list
but high on your partner’s list, obviously
you should let your partner have it.
If something is high on your list
but low on your partner’s list, then take
it. Just make sure you return the favor
in the future!
Learning how to be flexible and
bend some times is much more important
than winning every confrontation and always
getting what you want – unless you want
a breakup or divorce too.
This tip may sound simple, but
to be actually able to do it requires
maturity and discipline – two things
that will definitely help keep your
relationship a healthy one!
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| Conker | PostPosted: Sun Feb 21, 2010 5:46 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sun Apr 12, 2009 7:52 am Posts: 1037 Website: http://pickupfixup.wordpress.com/ Location: Brisbane, Australia | | Very good. A lot of the time you're too caught up in the way things are that you fail to see the way things could be. A lot better if you make the effort, or a lot worse if you keep fussing about things that don't matter and you lose her.
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