I have made somthing up very basic that will help alot of you! it will make you more confident and free you from the majority rules and regulations many of us follow in the pua community.

I call it DGF or Dont give fuck...basic stuff I know but I know but heres how it works...stop trying to live inside a box and start be your self! Do you think women want to be with emotionless men with no originality?

You know what I do when I feel like crying? I dont give fuck I cry....

If I want to say somthing that I think people will disagree with what do I do? DGF...I grow balls and say it and if no one agrees I DGF....I stick to my guns.

I remeber a few years ago I was so afraid to speak out if I knew somone wouldnt agree so what did I do? like most people I would hide and follow the leader...people often conform to the norm because they are afraid of being diffrent and they want to be accepted. Even this community (as wonderful as it is) lacks originality! there is no one perfect answere for any situation because we are all different. Some of us are emotional and that is ok as long as you can own it!

If you are a Feminine, metrosexual, who like wearing pink and geting his nails done then thats fine! Just own it! Own that shit like its you life and be the best fiminine male that you can be! Look at Mick Jagger...the guys is the biggest metrosexual, feminine, bisexual dude out there and people think he is the coolest shit since sliced bread!

If you are a guys guy then own it! dont try to buy a pink shirt with orange flowers because somone says its going to get you laid. Look at Jay-z the guys scream masculinity and hes done damb well for him self!

My point is that to many of us are trying to be somone we are not, striving to be what we think women want us to be when really all we had to do is be our self with more confidence and own every thing we do! this doesnt apply to every one but its sure goes apply to alot of you out there!

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Kinda sounds like Mystery's "No Big Deal" rule but with a negative edge. "I don't give a fuck" as a general attitude is sounds like a passive stance (passive-aggressive is more accurate). It's actively denying taking a position on an issue and being belligerent about your apathy, almost to the point of being apologetic. I don't think this is very good advice, but that's just me.

If you're peacocking, a guy calls you a homo for wearing outrageous clothes, and you tell your targets "I don't give a fuck" you are really telling them you DO give a fuck but you're just trying to act cool about it. The right response is to ignore the idiot and DHV to your HBs - maybe later turn it into a little joke at his expense. You don't tell the girls you don't give a fuck, you demonstrate that you don't give a fuck by acting like the guy doesn't exist and not getting flustered.

If you have an opinion on something, let her know about it. Girls don't want cold spaghetti - they want confident men with big ideas and testicular fortitude to stand behind those ideas. Don't make a big deal out of it, but if you can DHV by being knowledgeable about an idea and defending it a little bit to a challenger, you are also showing you can be a LOM.

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