I dated this HB 8 girl long distance for 6 months and visited her a few times. We had great times and fought once or twice. 5 days before I was going to spend Christmas and New Years with her a year ago, she called me up saying she cheated on me ect. On top of that, I lost the money I spent on a plane flight to go see her.

I was devastated for a while after that and just remained single to get myself together and focus on college and my interests (a lot of the reason why I left the game for some time)

Anyway she contacted me today online after I set my status to "I had enough of girls who are only beautiful on the outside" after a year of silence asking about that.

I just went with it that I am having sex with several hot girls but they are all dumb ect. (not true). The conversation only lasted like 10 minutes and she seemed hurt and down on herself saying she's a bad person ect but never got a chance to ask why because I really did have to end the conversation. I told her I had to go and might be able to talk later sometime to "catch up".

Which direction should I take this next time we talk?

I may be willing to be friends with her again but I don't know about a 2nd chance.

I don't know about this, she cheated on you and to think that shes different is only going to open up old wounds and put yourself back on the line. If you are fucking other girls, what is the point? You really want to be friends with her? Why?

It feels good to ease the past over and maybe reset good terms but I would say don't let her back in and don't let her get you back.

It would probably not be hard to lay her again but I just don't see the point because this is just going to end badly.

I've been in this position and like it felt the best to just close up my relationship with my ex and let her know that I have no animosity towards her whatsoever and feel fine with what happened and all that shit. Then she came back at me saying how she knows we are perfect, knows we will be together again one day blah blah blah but at the end of the day all she wants is to be the one that ends with the power.

I bet this girl saw that status, thought you were talking about her, felt like shit so she wanted to talk to you to validate that she isn't who you were talking about and that she is a good person or to convince you that shes different.

I just don't think its a good idea, I can see where your coming from but like what do you really want from her?

You honestly want to be friends? Why? To leave the possibility of getting back together? She fucked you over hard. Once a cheat, always a cheat.

I got an idea, make friends with her and have her pay you back for that plane ticket

lol I like the idea about the plane ticket

leave the past in the past