So, after the hard chase after this girl, we finally met up. She came to see me. We had some deep conversation in coffee shop, then we went to my apartment.

That's where I asked her to hold my hand and remove it if she doesn't like what she hears, I told her how I like her and how different she is and got the same vibe back. She did not remove her hand, however said she wants to take it slowly, and doesn't want to put a label on it and asked for no pressure, she said how different I am from other guys who want to stick the tongue down her throat. I said I completely agree, because I've been hurt and still am getting over past relationship, I explained why I have been so weird on the past three dates. She touched my face and hugged me tight.

Now, how do I make it a 50/50 relationship?
How do I make her be eager for more without rushing it too fast?
How often should I text/call her?
How do I make her have her own opinion, but at least consider mine and not someone else's?

I know the answers, or I think I do, but some guidance would be great.

don't program your relationship... just go with the flow and enjoy the process, don't make science out of it. You are recenlty together and you are already taking it too serious - you guys don't have a serious relationship yet consider it dating

don't take it too serious, be fun and be relaxed

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