if you broke up with your ex .....delete her msn... delete her facebook ... delete her phone number.....

i had a previous post, ... i decided to stay strong- ignore and not delete anything.

as i was being nice .. she actually tried to attack me and argue with me, she became mad at every joke or sarcastic joke i made.

here's the real deal why i feel bad .....

... here's. the deal .... my ex-ex ( the girl before my ex ) (my ex-ex has a non-lethal type of cancer) we had some fights and i left angry.
we took a break and i tried to visit her but she wasn't home ( she need to travel far in order to work and go to school ) and left her a few messages throughout the week.

2 weeks later i visited her(ex-ex) and she was with some other guy ..... i insulted her on her disease and walked away. we didn't broke-up we had a break and she cheated... ( this all took place about 6 months ago) my ex-GF before her cheated as well and it hurted like hell at the time.
about 2 weeks ago i heard her disease developed .. her cancer turned in to a lethal one.

that's why i feel bad ......im really sorry for her, i had the thought of visiting her as i have no phone number or email. i have treated her bad .. she treated me bad as well but i don't want her to die ......and she was'n't that bad- she tried to be understanding....

anyway my latest ex talked to me and asked how im doing. we had a regular convo - after a while i asked her opinion about my ex-ex and told her that shit. ( we shared alot of problems so i guessed we could talk )
she told me she doesn't believe me and told me im a anoying fuck .....

i instanlty delete her ... what a fucking egoicentric girl

ok now about my ex-ex who has this disease .... what would you do ? visit her ? i don't have her number or email.
im sincerely sorry for her... and i got nothing to lose right now..

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Imo, if you think visiting her would upset here, send her some flowers, a card an attached note saying your sorry and then leave her the hell alone.

If you think she'd be over the arguement and you could go see her, take her the flowers and the card, talk, don't Game, just be nice.

Then leave her alone, don't see it as a way back in, don't think you owe her because of your guilt and don't think she has to accept you back into her life just to help your guilt.

Say sorry, be nice, be on good terms then leave her be.

IMO. This is purely from my point of view, not from a PUA or any shit like that.

Obviously, if it makes you feel better - visit her. If she gets mad and starts arguing or attacking you - so what? Say what you want to say to her, then leave and never look back.

At least you've said what you wanted and that should put some weight off your soul.

Good luck to you,

Zentrode.