"Seeing her the way she wants to be seen. Every woman has a purpose that she secretly strives to achieve. There is a reason why she does what she does, or doesn’t do what she wants to. Find out what this value is and you will be able to give her the most amazing compliments she has ever heard. She needs to feel that you see her, as the person that little girl inside her yearns to be."


The girl I'm with aspires for fame. What are some genuine compliments for this?



Also, I need a quote that promotes fame. All the ones I found on the internet just downplayed it.

Sorry but I think that people who only aspire for "Fame" have no scope or originality, have found nothing that they love to do and view themselves as needing fame to be happy or accepted and its not something I would try and compliment and it sounds like they have some inner game issues.

I say this because I don't think you'll find an actor who just wanted to be famous or a musician who just wanted to be famous or a sportsman who just wanted to be famous. On some level the idea of "fame" may have driven them a little harder than the rest of the competition but at the end of the day it was the feeling of being on stage and entertaining people that drove the actor to fame or the countless songs and hours spent in the recording studio that led the musician to fame and the hard work and dedication that led the sportsman to fame.

Instead of complimenting her on wanting to be famous compliment her on her awesome personality or how driven she is to suceed at something she loves. Don't compliment her on the fact that she just wants to be "famous" as it doesnt sound like she's discovered what she really wants herself yet.

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don't compliment status itself .... it's not important what you have

it's important why and how

why and how -- > motivation and willpower ..... compliment that. compliment personlity

what guys do is complimenting and walking around with their GF's like they are a trophy. Don't give them such ego boost , im not gay ... even if the guy is bill gates i won't fuck him.

don't sacrifice principles for compliments , if you keep boosting her ego she will get more control of the relationship ( at least she thinks ).
good point.

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Oh man keep it simple....

I feel like if you have to research what words to use and you have to strategically find out what would be good to say, the compliment is not genuine. Do you honestly like the fact that she wants to be famous? If you do then stop thinking about it and look her in the eyes etc..

Emotions make compliments genuine.

I don't compliment the girlfriend unless I'm awed by something she does, I truly respect some way she is. She rewards those kinds of compliments

Don't over do it, just do it right.

If you fake it, guess what, you need to keep on faking it because she's going to think you really like the fact that she wants to be famous and that's not going to be a positive foundation.

She doesn't aspire for fame. She aspires to be recognized for what she does. She feels kinda alone.

Look, really any compliment will work, it's more important not to overthink it. Also you want to give the compliment and then get off that so that she can't grab onto it like I explain in how to compliment a girl. Give something powerful, then lean back and let her start chasing you for more compliments. Girls like to receive validation, so you want to give her a taste and then let her work for the rest.