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| Lodewijkp | PostPosted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 10:12 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sun Jul 12, 2009 4:11 pm Posts: 1887 Location: Netherlands | | it's not like i really care ... i got pictures as well... but this is little bit weird
but my new GF broke up 2 months ago with her ex and she still has a main profile photo with her parents and her ex on it. ( a dutch myspace like site)
i mean the guy was a total jerk and physically abused her when he really got angry.
why in earth would she keep a photo with her ex on it.
she is kinda cold and distant.. no problem i mean i want to know someone before i commit myself seriously.
we are together for about 1 month right now and we recently had sex, it's very easy to escalate.
but somehow she won't show her feelings even if they aren't that emotional
we are great together ... we have fun we could talk easily .. and we are both arrogant cocky and smart.
however when i tell her i care about her she won't say it back
while playing cocky she told me to say something sweet so i said '' i love you but i only say this because you told me to say something sweet '
she didn't reply back .... she took it serious .. which is kinda weird because i said it cocky and not very seriously.... she only said she is very cautious and she want to take it slow.
sounds stupid because she had sex with me .....
she's kinda distant, cautious , not really involved - on the otherside she is fun, warm and gentle
but this main picture with her ex also on it ( on her profile page ... facebook like service) really give me some doubt.
1. i could get this straight by talking about it '' accidentally looking on her page at ''her place on her laptop '' and ask question '' hey cool picture''. the rest will reveal.
2. be distant myself and look how much she invests.
im not gonna ask her right away seriously that would be AFC as fuck, i don't want to sound jealous.
she replies to all text messages and if i ignore her she chase me( until now).
it's not like i got one-itis or something and im relentless in dumping girls, certain signs really tell me she doesnt got any feelings for me HOWEVER sometimes she does the opposite in a cautious way.
whats your opinion ? i got the feeling she is rushing into a relationship with me without really knowing what she wants...... i got that feeling.
especially by this picture thing .... it only tells me she still got too many feelings for him, or she has not let go yet ...... _________________ AK-47...When you absolutely positively have to kill every fucking orc in the room
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| TheLastWolf | PostPosted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 10:48 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Tue Jun 30, 2009 7:28 pm Posts: 262 | | She's been hurt, physically and mentally(by her ex). And she thinks you are going to do the same and doesn't want it to happen again. Have you guys taken any photo's together? Help her build a new chapter in her life and stop worrying about her ex. Just have fun.
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