Right I'm in the following situation: I want my ex-gf from 1 year ago back!
I'll just state out the facts so you guys can understand the situation:

She has whipped me off in the LJBF zone.
I'm her favorite person in the world - spending time with me is probably one of her most favorite activities in life (we're both musicians and we're extremely similar and have loads of things in common)
I haven't communicated with her much during the last year - once a month max.
However we've spent A LOT of time together during the last 2 months.
THE FOLLOWING IS KEY:
I've been in PUA communities for 5 years now so I am quite experienced - that's why I decided to tell her that she needs to forget me as a friend and delete me out of her life - She finds this impossible to do - I have told her stuff like "I don't wanna be your friend - you have to forget me"
BUT I MIGHT HAVE MADE THE MISTAKE OF LETTING HER KNOW I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT HER..She perfectly knows I am insanely in love with her and I've mentioned it on quite a few occasions unfortunately - last night we slept in the same bed like absolute lovers - all the cuddling and hugging etc. was there and we talked for at least 8 hours
HOWEVER SHE HAS TOLD ME AT LEAST TWICE SHE JUST DOESN'T LOVE ME...she believes she is attracted to me...(obviously she is not)
We're both pretty self-aware , there's loads of talking going on, she knows I'm extremely good at social interaction and last night we led such a discussion that I even explained to hair why she is not in love with me anymore - she is just not attracted to me.

Now as I mentioned I am aware of most PUA concepts and I do understand why I'm in this situation: I'm just lost on how to approach this from now on!
If anyone believes he can offer some advice please do not hesitate to share: I AM IN NEED OF HELP - I am not being needy , i CAN let her go as I have mentioned - i have modified my approach so that she is not like a uanitis in my head although i subconsciously know she is...

HELP )

dude if u want a chance dont look for her and turn her down a few times. tell her ur busy or something when she wants to hang out and make sure she sees you flirting with other girls and it might trigger jealously on her and she wanting you back if that doesnt work then you are moving on without you realizing it.. hope it helped

Thanks for the advice!
I am actually doing that - throughout my experience I've learned that jealousy is the strongest attribute that can a trigger a girl to get attracted to you again. Am I right?
Anyone willing to elaborate on that?

Please anyone else share your thoughts and opinions, I'm open for anything - I'll feel better by hearing some thoughts - whatever they may be!

What do you guys think are other ways that you can get someone to get re-attracted to you?

Thanks in advance!

As sexual as this may have seemed to you this is a friend move. The talking for 8 hours can be a definate LJBF prescriber depending on what you talked about. But frankly if you had 8 hours to convince her that you were the one that she loves then Im doubting she sees you in that light.

As you said Im a firm believer that there is alwyas hope but you need to get more drastic with you approaches. You cant continue with the same stuff. You need to move on and find a new girl with your jealousy card in play. The easiest way you'll know shes responding to this is if she starts to initiate more ways of communicating and interacting with her (ie calling you or trying to hang out with her).

If you can go a week without talking to her, then you'll get a good sense of how dependant she is on you, as will she. You need to make sure ur not projecting ur neediness onto her needing you which may be the case.

2 months is too long for nothing to have sparked and it gives her the impression she can wait forever and youll still be there so she doesnt have to commit, she can go out and look for a "better" guy. You need to make yourself the better guy.

Good luck, these are always hard situations but the best way to deal with them is to be decisive and to note the turnout, youll appreciate this in the future when you run into similar problems.

2 months is indeed too long ... if nothing has happens so it be ...
normally i get sparks at the second or thirth date.

she isn't worth it and your conversations about all the feeling has confirmed everything. failed to escalate .. you got stuck in friendship zone ... you didn't escalate.

no offense but i have to call this '' epic fail'' from your side.
next time be more sexual .. kino more .. do more push-pull .. and sexualy escalate.

i think you have to forget this one ..... this isn't worth it man ... there is always hope i agree, but hope doesn't tell you the time - hope doesn't tell you the deadline - and hope certainly doesn't develop the situation as you might think.

I never hang around ex-GF .. i never talk to ex-GF i just forget them like they never existed. if i got a hard time il just pretend that they got ranover by a car or they gone missing in the bermuda triangle ( this fucking cracks me up because one of my ex-GF want to visit the bermuda triangle ).

when you get your ex-GF into your life she is either your friend or your girlfriend, i don't want to choose that's why i keep calling them ex-GF for a reason/

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