So we were having a little txt chat and the topic of birth control was brought up (by me). I kinda was asking her to go on it.

She replied, "i only go on bc for boyfriends and people who like chunky girls"

maybe im looking into this too deeply but is she trying to tell me something? Yes, we've had sex and have been seeing each other off and on for about two months.

birth control makes her fat.

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Magnum is correct...

She's just saying she doesn't want to gain weight which is a side effect for some girls while on the pill...

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I see what youre saying, but wouldnt it have been enough just to say the chunky part. Sounds like such a odd thing to put in there...especially because of the timing; she has been treating me a little different lately (opening up to me) which has only started to happen very recently.

Yea your right dude. She doesn't mean that. She means whatever you think. Because your right, you just came on here to prove us wrong. Thats cool.

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She wants you to commit and cares what you will think of her. It's pretty normal. She wants to know that you wont care if she gets a little bigger. Why are you reading into something that is pretty direct?

This above comment is why i reposted. Does she want me to be her boyfriend? Yes, it does seem very direct and obvious but my god is this girl ambiguous and has told me when we first started seeing each other that she did not want a boyfriend. This is why its not so black and white to me.

Magnum, there is no need to give me shit when im asking for deeper understanding of a situation. I understand why she said the chunky thing and that is a concern for her, but thats not the part of that statement i am questioning. I just simply wanted to know if she's dropping hints that she is now ready to have a boyfriend.

Well, do you want her as your gf?

pardon my french ...

WHY the fuck do you ask us what she means ? why don't you ask her?
if you don't know what she means then just ask her.. don't imply shit or whatever - you can't think for her.
its very clear

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Yea thats good advice, Why don't you text her back and say... What do you mean?

Then your problem is solved.

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Im afraid of bringing that topic up. We havent been in a relationship and I like the way its been working. I fear giving her the opportunity to tell me thats what she wants and then finding out its not what I want could ruin what we have going.

Could you elaborate in more detail. I fail to see how asking her a question is going to ruin your relationship.

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If she puts it out there that she wants me to be her boyfriend and then i turn around and say i dont want to be your boyfriend, im thinking shit will get weird. who wants to be with someone after theyve been rejected, ya know?

So what was the orginal problem? What was it that you wanted from her?

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relationships arent a chess game, theres no need for all this strategy. Even if it was a hint just play it safe, she'll eventually bring it up if its what she really wants. As for BC, whether or not your with her she should get on it because it takes a while to completely get in the system and be effective