Ok I'm probably gonna be asking this HB8 out tonite. The thing is she's the type of girl who never initiates anything...and I feel like I'm not in control at all because I'm always texting her, asking her to hangout, and if she says she can't then its me who asks next time. She knows I really wanna hangout and she knows I will ask, and I will text her. How the fuck do I reverse this but in the meanwhile make sure she's not out cheating on me?

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Someone had the same problem just a little while ago. What was suggested was don't call her. After 4 or 5 days and she hasn't called/text'd you, call her up and say "If this is how you are going to treat me, I think we need to take a break."

Have you researched "pre-selection"? It is prominent in EVERY species in regards to males.

Jealousy plot lines are gold for these "non-initiating" type of women. It gets THEM to move and gets your control back. Take this into the fact that this is a healthy DATING dynamic, not good commitment relationship method.

Sounds like you need to develop some orbiters of your own. The girl I have been seeing for 1 yr 3 months now, we had a falling out about 3 months ago. I went out that very night, pulled an HB9 from a bar and we went out the next night, had sex with her and the next day my GF says "hey, I wanna get back together". I said, yeah, ok, well i'm going to take you out dancin tonight. I have some friends for you to meet.

We show up right outside the club out here in Waikiki, I intro the girls to each other and niether knew what the fuck was going on. I was shitting my pants with excitement cause I KNEW my GF so well that she would "Alpha Woman" that girl and stop playing power games. The power was then rebalanced in our relationship. WHY? "PRESELECTION".

A woman respects a man who has female friends and can lead social interactions with both men and women. Focus on that, and these small issues such as "calling her n texting her all the time with no response" will be a distant memory of which you laugh at your self as your plowing your current girlfriend.

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