Alright so I just started seeing this chick. It's been about 2 weeks...hung out a couple times and have plans to hang out more. We have made out a few times and text back and forth a little.

Anyway...I was wondering about these first 2 months or so...how often should the interactions be? how often should we hang out? how often do you think i should call? text? blah blah...this all sounds chode to me because usually i am just a 'hit it and quit it' guy, but i really hit it off well with this chick...

basically....what should i NOT do...i dont wanna fuck this up.

thanks in advance

Things should be the way you want them to be. That is to say, hang out with her whenever you want to, call her whenever you want to, have sex with her whenever YOU want to (assuming she consents to all of the above).

The number one way to have a shitty relationship is to pretend to be something other than what you are or follow some bullshit rules about how the first two months of a relationship should go that some guys on an internet forum told you. Be yourself. If yours and this girl's personalities work well together, things will progress on their own.

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Yes, and along those lines - keep being the person that attracted her (you, hopefully). There is no reason to switch into some arbitrary "boyfriend" mode.

The same rules that you know, still apply. Making yourself too available and easy, cheapens you. Meet up with her but make sure you have other things on so that you can be unavailable on certain days and she has a chance to plan around your life.

Keep making her chase you. It works for me.

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

I find for the first 1-3 months of a relationship most women will act a little more distant and uninterested until they have figured you out...also many time it they will not open up much. I would say its normal to hang out 3-4 times a week in the start.

I will tell you how it will almost 100%! end up this way.

months 1-2: You are head over heals over her! cant get her off your mind, she seems a little less interested and keeps you on your toes.

months 2-4: She starts to warm up to you and things seem perfect...your completely infatuated with her and she is with you.

months 3-6: You start to see the real side of each other and start seeming less and less perfect to each other....You get in your first big fight and you eaither break up or make up and have an even stronger relationship because of it...You start hanging out alot more, she starts talking about her feelings more.

6 months to a year: You spend 5-7 days of the week togeather and you are best friends. You now know each other very very well! and one or both of you say "I love you"...You relationship is more then just sex now.

1-3 plus years: either she gets bored and cheats or breaks up with you, or you keep her on her toes and she loves you and you have a great realationship.