how to tell if the girl is telling you the truth about her past affairs and relationships.how to trust her at the same time how to tactfully take out things from them about their past.

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Honestly man I think about my girlfriends past all the time! It bothers me but I really have learned to forget about it and just enjoy her because we are truly perfect for each other so as long as she loves me and I love her thats all that matters...If you are like me it will always bother you. I always think am I the best she has had? what did she do with other guys ect ect....I think its an ego thing and the fact that I like to be the top dog so it really bugs me! but hey that life and I dare you to find a good looking girl who is a virgin....its not going to happen.

Can you change the past? No. Now if your gf cheated alot in her past then mabey you have somthing to worry about, or mabey she slept with alot of guys? like 50...then yeah you might want to worry and get tested lol but if she hasnt then just ignore your ego and enjoy the realationship....my gf swears her number is under 10...Il go with 9 haha and yeah that bugs the shit out of me! see as she is only 20 but thats prob about avg these days.