Waz rappening ppl!

I'm still trying to learn how to AMOG pua style. Back in the dayz I used to just loose my cool and try to gain respect by force. That method cost me relationships in the past and friends.

A mutual friend(Salesman) of my GF and I recently tried selling his friend to my GF. I was like WTF??

Salesman speaking to the both of us said his friend works at her new job that she will be starting soon. He said to us jokingly "You better watch out for my friend. He said he's going to make your GF his wife when she starts her new job!". Then speaking to my GF he went on about how his friend earns all this money, is smart, successful, physically fit and closer to her age bla bla bla. It sounded like a door to door sales pitch to make me look like last years obsolete vacuum cleaner.

Trying not to show my anger. I said " Well,... I'm thinking about outsourcing some of my regular duties with the GF. Tell your friend I'll hire him to take her out wine and dine her, listen to her problems, but make sure she has a GOOD time and then before the end of the night bring her to my place.. I'll take care of the business from where he left off?"

Another mutual friend who was there said to Salesman " Count me in on that! Can your friend do that for my wife too?"

The GF said to the both of us cutting Salesman out of the convo "I'm not that high maintenance!" The other friend winged me a bit as we tried changing the frame.
Salesman was still persistent going on about some BS, but I just ignored him.

Thats just a snippet. What do you guys think? At one point when Salesman was talking I just sort of cut him off and spoke over him. Should I let the AMOG say what he has got to say 1st? I was a little cut when he started bragging about his friend, kinda felt like a looser for a second there.

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

Nah sounds like you made the right decisions in the moment.

Sure you give someone a chance, but if someone is continually making the conversation weird, they have a specific amount of chances to change topic before people are well within their rights to just start cutting them off mid-sentence. Everyone else around will understand. If it gets left going for too long then the people involved are all too weak to do the right thing.

What he was doing was bizarre. And if I had to take a guess at explaining his motive, it would be that he felt like he had no chance with a girl as hot as yours, so thought he'd try destroying the situation by talking about his friend that will take your girl away from you, to appear cool or something. Sounds like everyone else tried to make the best of it, and make it into a joke, and did a pretty good job, and in the end when he didn't actually play along with the joke, you started cutting him off. Well done

Thanks Conker your feed back is always appreciated.

I think Salesman's motive dates back to one time when I was hanging out with him and he was acting a little childish throwing stuff at a female friend of ours.
The girl was cool at first,but when he started getting physical she started blocking him with some pretty good calls. I was going to wing him at first, but didn't want to look like I support his behaviour, so I joined her. Together we destroyed whatever ego he had left..

He can be a cool guy, but that day we had to let him have it for his own good.

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

Yes it is becoming more obvious that he seems insecure inside and is trying too hard to compensate.