i met a girl in june, we started hanging out, it was good no doubt,in the middle of july she said she didn't want to hangout anymore, four days later she changed her mind, i thought maybe she was just scared, so we said that we would be friends with benifits, well not long after that she said i was her boyfriend, i went along with thinking i was keeping my guard up, by the way i ended up letting it down b/c she has everything i look for in a women, that was on the list, well about two weeks ago she told me she couldn't do it anymore,a week before this happened she was totally into me staying with me, telling me that she really liked me and that she was letting herself go with it we were spending alot of time together and the next week nothing,so i didn't contact her, a week later she called and wanted to get het stuff and return mine, well we weren't able to together, and she said i'll get another day, so i haven't heard from her in a week. wednesday i called her and asked her when she was going to get her stuff, so we planned for to get it friday, is there anything i can do, to keep her around ?

Enmble:

It is a dangerous way of thinking to make one girl seem perfect "she has everything i look for".

There is no such thing as a "perfect" girl, and there are much more than one that come close. Also, if you chase her then you give her no challenge, she has no motivation to return to you. Play it aloof and make yourself the prize. If she chooses not to be with you, then it is her loss.

Yours,
Red Hot

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Yours,
Red Hot