I have to post this today just to vent. My main chick is hot. She has double d tits and an ass for day with jet black hair. Think of Ice-Ts chick only latin and with black hair.

When we go out, I make sure she dresses in a way that all eyes will be on us. She is the type of woman that a lot of guys who are just getting into the game want but are not confident enough to get.

With this I have to tell you though, I have a group of friends that are always so damn insecure with this. A few have chicks that are decent, something I would defiantly hit on a good night (if they where not their ladies of course), but they are nothing out of this world. And yet I always see them flipping out out about the attention their girls get or how they dress. And I seem to be this anomaly to them because I walk around with my chick like I'm the best thing since brad pitt and Vin Diseal.

Anyway, last night I hit a bar for a drink solo. I do it from time to time when I'm stressed out with business. And I see one of my friends chick all over some other guy, so I walk up and say Hi and cordially introduce myself to the guy pull her over and ask her "what's going on here?" Sure enough its like opening a can of worms (a tipsy drinking can of worms), she starts going off about my friends insecurity and she can't be herself and all this stuff. Then she says, get this, "If he would of been have the man you are..." And the convo pretty much ends with a few other exchanges, and I cant even stay while I see this so I'm home before 1.

Look I don't see myself as a big shot or some super Alpha Male so when she said that I was surprised beyond belief.
To wrap it up, I took my good old boy out for breakfast this morning to chat and it was true, They've split and he is a wreck.

Moral of the story I guess is "Don't get more of a woman than you can handle. And once you have her let he be man. Keep her undercontrol with your strength and confidence not whinning and insecurity".


Take it easy

D

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What do you do when another guy hits on your girl or if your girl starts flirting with other guys?

go to the shop and buy a new one.

Good post man, very true.

Inner game is key.

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If a guy hits on my gf I just go up introduce...if its in the bar then I usualy just say "whats goin on man Im @#$% boyfriend do you know each other?" and I act friendly....no need to be insecure your woman should stand by you any way.

If she flirts? well it depends what you mean by flirting? if she is touching him, or says somthing inappropriate then you should say somthing to her and dont act like a afc...be stern and let her know that not ok and if she fights with you then ditch her because she not worth your time....do find another women. If she is just talking to a guy then do nothing....somtimes people (often women) flirt with out knowing they are doing so....they have no intention of hooking up or dating the guy its just natural to them....if a girl is really into a guy usualy she will be very touchy and when you are around the two of them she will be very stand offish with you...not watching to touch you ect ect...this I dont put up with but thats me.

My girlfriend always thinkings im flirting with women who I talk to but honestly I dont try to! I would never and have nevr cheated and would never dream of it because I love my gf and she is amazing...but I am a very out going guy, I smile alot ect ect....not to hit on the girl but just because thats how I come off I guess...

Well, you could find someone better seeing as she doesn't really respect the relationship you two have by doing that.

my gf is very flirty and outgoing, although i know she has no intention of hooking up with anyone but me. i do get jealous easily and first reaction is too be very afc and inscure, any tips to get into a stronger mindset, i know how i should act but can never find the right words and attitude to back it up. any tips?

It is human natural to be flirtatious in some aspects. There is nothing wrong with it either. Just think of it like this: she is YOUR girlfriend. You should be feel great that you have a relationship that other guys she flirts with are dying to have. At the end of the day, who is she with? YOU.

You can also see it like this: you have a nice Ferrari and you drive it into the city. After your movie or whatever you come out and see people gathered around it. They are all looking at it in envy. They want it. Well hell, it's a nice car so who wouldn't? Regardless of how many people have stared at it all day, regardless of how many people want it, when you leave the city, that car is yours and no one else will take it home but you.

I'm NOT saying to be possessive of your girlfriend nor should I be comparing her to a car, but all sensitivity aside, do you see my point?

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Honestly Angel, I let her flirt around all she wants and run game.

Some times go out and she hustles guys for drinks and passes them over to me just so she can get her hustle going. (sounds crazy,but frankly she loves being able to flaunt out and is super turned by herself doing it and the fact her man lets her and plays the game with her). Next thing I know, a few drinks later and you can't keep her off me because she is just so horny. And this is after 4 years already.

She personal agrees with me that men now a days have become flat out suckers, to feminized.

Her last man met her one night at a bar and called her when he got home to tell her he was "home ok".

And I think Vegas is right. A chick, even if you are in a long term relationship is a representation of a nice car. Flaunt it.

If things don't work out, sierra is right man, I'd get another one worth my time. One thing I do understand is this, I would consider myself a secure man, and I believe a relationship is sex, friendship, respect and fun. But you have to outline what these aspects can be. We have an agreement of what our relationship is. She plays by my rules and she can have the best of both the single and the dating world.

She would be crazy to do something wrong. And if she does, I leave the relationship knowing I was the good catch. I was the one who was not possessive and I am not the one who losses out.

I move on and find another woman who's worth the privilege of my time.
(Sounds conceded man but there are allot of men out there who are the opposite way with their women and I tell you flat out they just hate it and leave the relationship feeling as if they got the better end of it.).

Plus you alway get the reputation around her friends. Trust me man they get jealous as shit about one of their friends having a guy who is "so secure with himself". They themselves hit on you.

D

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Taste,

Vegas is right.

The key is this man. You set the ground rules to the relationship, you give a little yourself but you always end up being the one with the rules set up. If she crosses that boundary then ditch her or thats her only fuck up she can have. She loses those privileges.

In the end man, the feeling of insecurity is natural for many, but when you have the information in front of you and you've set the rules, you can even begin to feel if something "isn't stirring the kool aid right".

Then you detach and get one who appreciates YOUR generosity and security.

D

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yh i get you guys. be secure shes mine. just working on the confidence and social still find myself speechless in some situations, with no witty comebacks or conversation. dam it a good job i got charm

yh i get you guys. be secure shes mine. just working on the confidence and social still find myself speechless in some situations, with no witty comebacks or conversation. dam it a good job i got charm

yh i get you guys. be secure shes mine. just working on the confidence and social still find myself speechless in some situations, with no witty comebacks or conversation. dam it a good job i got charm

Look dude instead of pulling her aside just say hi to the bloke shake hands with him. Now he is the one in a very insecure situation force him to make mistakes and show your gf that hes a afc.