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hi
it's years that i'm single and i'm enjoing a lot....have differents girls...one night stands etc
after a while i'm starting to need someting more serious like a kind of relationship but at the same time i can't stop to pick up...i'm young i can't stop,it's like a drug.
what i'd like to do it's to build more than a relationship or at least build one relationship and keep go hunting turists the other days.
the problem is that i don't live in a big city so there are big possibilities to be catch if you have more than one girl.
the only solution that i',ve found is to find a gir that live in a different city(close to mine) and then keep pick upping in your city.....with little percentage to be cought.
do you have better solutions?
who of you guys had more than a girl at the same time and how did you handle this?
There referred to Friends with Benefits (OTH) or Fuck Buddies
There are two different levels that make some one you ring up where a mutual demand for sex is accumulated and there is no real connection that you can be friends or ever a relationship (simliar to a one night stand but happens more often).
The close friend with benefit, where this girl has simliar interests, you do more then just have sex e.g. if I am going to a wine tasting event (ps these suck big time except free unlimited wine gets you shithoused) you are not going to go alone, or a new film at the cinema these are the people you call.
To obtain this relationship you must be 100% honest up front and state that you are not looking for a relationship, and enjoy her company not just sexually (this will prevent her turning over one night spooning you and saying "Baby where is this relationship going"-take it from experience from hard battles lost.
Through the honesty there is no deceit, and sneaking.
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with little percentage to be cought.
Ensure that she is happy with you fucking other girls this is vital! I like to remind girls I always wrap it so she would not have to worry and I get tested a lot most years to ensure that I have not got anything. Also some girls will want to fuck other guys you must decide are you happy with this, some girls will not some will.