My fiance and i have been dating for about 10 months now. And if u read my last post she has gone to band camp at college this week. We hung out just about everyday the week before and things were great. But now thats she's down there we've had two fights already and shes been there for 2 days.

She used to say i love you first and get excited about getting married; but now the only emotions she's displayed towards me is anger frustration and that she's too busy to talk. I tried talking to her about it and i just got off the phone with her and she says she hasnt noticed anything and she will try to show that she cares more. But it seems like the only reason she's doing it, is because im asking her too. I'm still at home and all my friends are busy getting ready to go off to college too, so im basically stuck at home all day thinking about when she's going to decide its not worth it anymore. I love this girl and i couldnt imagine a future without her, I know the guy should always maintain a willingness to leave if necessary but i don't want to. I just want her to be the girl i fell in love with again instead of someone who doesnt show that they care anymore, is there anyway i can do that or is this a big red flag?

Dude she has been there for 2 days and you had already started drawing conclusions. It's simple your inbuilt jealousy has started to kick in. You can't see what is going on at bandcamp and that frustrates you a lot. That's normal in any relationship when you love the person sooo much.

Dude she has been there for 2 days and you had already started drawing conclusions. It's simple your inbuilt jealousy has started to kick in. You can't see what is going on at bandcamp and that frustrates you a lot. That's normal in any relationship when you love the person sooo much.