Things that can break up a relationship like the on i had with my recent gf of one month which just ended today. Even though i am emotional i want the communoty to gain something from my pain.

Lets see how about some background. Met her at Practices for musicals. I cocky funnied her unitl i fucked her at an after party. Went out with her, didnt see her much at all. She kept flaking on me. Now her reasons for breaking up with me were.
Joking about fucking a GILF with a mate of mine
Not talking about emotional stuff
wanting something diff to me. She wants something i wanted to hang with her she said she never has time these days. Fucked up ae?

What i can gather from this is.
Dont joke about doing another woman no matter how absurd ( i think she may had low self esteem although she was so independent). Also be careful when you fuck them fast like after 4 days of going out. Got to build in comfort in encounters after that.

Really thinking about it though. At the musial my social value was huge (main lead) which is probably why she got so attracted then comes noramlity at school. it disillusions her. the spark of attraction goes. Then you get what i had, no plans with her for 2 weeks. Believe me i tried.

Where did i fuck up? Our dates when we first went out was great. Did i just push too hard? I will post more to get better at this posting thing. \

I know i suck
Please bare with me

No joking about having sex with another women is not a good idea lol its more a respect...somtimes I will joke to my gf that I will call my other gf up if she is being bad but i never tell her im gunna fuck another women haha

perhaps you came off as overly cocky and insecure? women want a man not an ass hole which means you should be a strong confident provider who doesn't take shit...not an ass hole who talks about having sex with other women lol you live you learn I guess.

Honestly if there is one thing I have noticed in a relationship if you are the guy you have to be the rock! meaning dont let any thing phase you...if she calls you an asshole, slits your tires, and kills your puppy because you got the wrong kind of ice cream and its her period lol you need to be able to stay calm, stern, and put her in her place with out raising your voice....every time that raise my voice to my gf its like ww3 lol if I scold her and act logical she often thinks about what she did and then comes to me and says sorry. Just one of many things I have notices with women lol