ok so this girl is very lively and flirty but so am i so i dont mind cause i know she is really into me. before she met me she was sleeping with this boy who is still one of her best friends.
i met her around 3months ago when she immediatly stoped it with him and we have been going out for 2months now but she is still really good friends with him and all three of us always hang in the same circles. lately he has been saying stuff along the lines of if you werent with your bf i could show u such a good time.
how would you react to this situation?

I was in a similar situation recently a little different cause she kissed the guy while we were on a break but check it out. Check out the responses. Hopefully it helps

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Ok first of all before I give you advice I have some questions?

1. how old are you? A 16 year old girl thinks very diffrently then a 25 plus women.

2. Are you a couple (bf, gf) or just seeing each other? Because this has a big impact on how you should deal with the situation.


Now in general I would say that jealousy is a lost cause...its a virus that will make you look weak, imature, and eat you up in side. It is natural to get jealous but you have to control it and learn how to deal with it! let me ask you somthing....will being jealous change anything? will it keep her from cheating? NO! all it will do is push her away and make you look AFC. If a women is going to cheat she will cheat no matter how jealous you are or what you do so who gives a shit? you will look alot cooler if you dont give a shit and it will eat at her to see you not care...in general women like when men are jealous because it makes them feel wanted but if you dont show that it will eat at her like a tiger on a steak.

Dont let jealousy happen! when it does block it out and think of somthing good! By the sounds of things you are young so dont get stuck up on one girl.

yh im 18 so is she, its a bf/gf thing. She also attracts alot of attention when she is out i play it cool give her the wink, av a good time, flirt with her and others, and we always leave together. im new at this though and my game is easily dented, i go out with her friends aswell who are all really loud (im out AMOGed) again dents my self esteem and then i have very little to say. i have mindset of trying to impress other still and find it impossible to change however hard i try

Ok well first of all its is simple really....You need to just stop being jealous. I know its hard but when you get the feeling just stop....think of somthing eles because if she cheats ther is nothing you can do! and eventually she will get caught.

Now If you see her flirting or acting distant then you need to use the push pull technique. The mistake that most men make is that when their gf does somthing they dont like they try to get suck up, get close, and become very afc...its like giving a dog a bone when its done somthing wrong...makes no sens at all! so when she isnt acting the way you like then push and when she is pull...simple.

You might ask how to push? dont call her let her call you, ignore her....dont be a dick but just dont try as hard. Now when she is acting how you like and trying to pull you in i.e telling you how much she likes you, or doing somthing nice then it is time for you to do the same...buy her flowers, take her out, tell her you care about her ect ect.

I would have a word with him.

thanks all. trying to simply push the jellousy out of my mind and i feel my mood change, so working on it