Hello all...
I have been asking myself this question for the past few weeks.
I've pretty much become better at Picking up girls, building a different more active and women surrounded lifestyle and I have come to the question.
Do I really want a girlfriend? ...
I now have girls saying they love me and would like to be with me in a serious way.
And I tell to myself ...
Why have a girlfriend, when I can basically get any women?
And sometimes, the though of "Oh, I can get someone prettier/hotter/etc..." Than one of the girls I go out with.
When I first got into the "Venusian Arts" ... I wanted to get a girlfriend, and I got one, using the methods, I basically got her in love with me (We lasted 2 months) she had to leave town so we broke up, she came back, and now she tells me she loves me, she is in love with me.
It is hard to explain, but that doesn't mean a lot to me, its like: "Why should I go back with her, when there's 5 other options just waiting for me to pop the question "Would you be my girlfriend?" "...
And at the same time, I don't want to pop it, maybe I enjoy my PUA life, going out with my friends, meeting girls.
I don't know if I am making myself clear, its a little hard to explain.
As much as I DO WANT a girlfriend, every time I come close to asking a girl that question, I go like "Why? ..."
Has anyone ever experienced this kind of thoughts?
Is anyone on the same boat as me?
Lets discuss this matter!

Ya man I completely understand where you're coming from. It seems whenever I actually get into a serious relationship, it's fine and dandy when I'm with her, but as soon as she leaves and I'm hanging out with another girl, I couldn't care less about my girl. I've read numerous things from very renound and insightful PUA's about this sort of thing. It will get better the better you become at pick-up. The better you get, the higher quality woman you can attract and seduce, and eventually you'll meet one girl that you just have to make you're own and that will be enough. I don't know if you have ever read it, but Style's book The Game had some great insight into how he met that one girl (not too sure how it ended, but was helpful nonetheless). Good luck my friend.

Havik

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I think the part I enjoy most about all this PUA... is the actual chase of the girl, the actual game.
But once I get the girl or it turns into a serious relationship I lose interest.
I've met a ton of HB10's ... that can't even pass the "Beauty is common test" (Where you ask 3 interesting things about their personality, and they're like "duuuh idk... i'm good at sex, make out and i'm funny lolololololol")
Its probably my age (19) that I'm more interested in having fun and making out with girls or something like that.
But I do want a relationship.
Its probably I don't want to give up on the lifestyle.
I guess I could still game girls, and meet them, attract them without actually compromising my relationship, and it all would add to my social status (And my girlfriend's value )
I think I'm going to try it. I may even get better if I am with the mentality that I have a girlfriend and I'm just talking to this girl for fun and I don't want anything out of her.

Hierarchy my friend, hierarchy. I'm 18 myself, and I know if I'm at a party I talk to and flirt with as many gorgeous women as possible and make new friends despite the girlfriend. Just remember: girlfriends come and go, but parties last forver haha. You've got plenty of time to find that girl, just remember to keep an open mind. Party hard man.

Havik

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Do the impossible, think the unimaginable, kill the immortal.

The novelty wears off over time...dont get me wrong I do miss the rush of going out, picking up, and the idea that any women could be mine....but I have an amazing, beautiful, smart gf who I chose and met thanks to the pua skills I gained. Before I was with my gf I was at my "peak" of pick up and was going out 5-6 nights a week....I could pick up almost any women If I wanted to and thats kinda how I met my gf.