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Basically this situation is that I have been dating this girl for about 8 months. Most of the relationship has been great. But, she almost has two sides. The one I love is perfect. However, every now and then she has this other jealous, defensive, clingy, and over-bearing personality that pisses me off. I have broken up with her a couple times as a reuslt, and she has been heart-broken, but we have ended up back together because we mesh so well most of the time.
We had this huge blow up last week and decided we really needed have some space. It has been hard though because I really do care about her, and the same for her. She did some things that pissed me off, and I couldn't take it anymore.
Thing is, she then asks me to take care of her cat while she moved apartments, and when I saw her, we had this passionate thing still lingering there.
I guess my question is do I get back with her? Or do we keep this separation going? And for how long? I think she has finally realized what a bitch she can be and s working on fixing that. Or is it just the end of something that was good, but needed to be done...? Any thoughts?
Its up to you where you want to take this relationship. How much have you invested in her in terms of time and emotions that you are willing to let go. If you are indifferent than break off and walk away BUT make sure you tell her why you are breaking off with her and that YOU BOTH had a good thing going but she couldnt just help being a B**ch and ruining the relationship. This might make her realize her mistakes, if any.
But since I have no scarcity of great women in my life I belive in cutting my losses early and advise the same. If you guys have broken off before than clearly something isn't working.......
CHAT
