She crossed "the line" and you need to ditch her! not only did she kiss another guy but it was your friend! she was selfish, and can now not be trusted....shes sorry? who gives a shit? lol dont let her make you feel bad I dont care how much you like her she is the one who should be feeling like shit but its you who feels like shit.

She cheated plain and simple....If you take her back she will think "its ok I can do it again" and then next time she is drunk she will do somthing stupid...and mabey next time sleep with a guy. If my gf did this to me I would tell her to hit the road and let her know she fucked up big time! she should feel horrible! dont be a dick but let her know you are disappointed and discussed over what she did and let her know she lost the best thing she ever had because she is selfish.

As for your friend? IMO he needs a swift ass kicking! that no friend.

p.s If you do give her another chace you better lay some ground rules! remeber she fucked up not you! you dont have to suck up to her she has to suck up to you...she has to earn you respect and trust back not the other way around so dont kiss up to her. If you kiss her ass she will walk all over you and do it again....I would give it a week and tell her you need time to think and then take things slow and let her earn you back....if she really loves you then after a week she will a still be there waiting for you.

She's crying because she got caught, not because she hurt you. She feels sorry for herself, which is why she is crying. She wants your attention back, and its good you're not giving it to her. What would she have done in a reversed situation?

I think its an obvious decision, especially since she tried lieing about it.

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