Ok, start off by saying im in highschool, getting into final year. started dating this girl (almost a month now) encountered LMR, she wants to stay a virgin till marriage yada yada, we'd fool around pretty much doing everything, except she'd let me rub her downstairs through the cloth but wont let me take it off no matter wat. after being in the game I decided to let her know that i want physical intimacy to be able to invest in emotional intimacy, I dont know why but this is something i normally wouldnt do, my AFC self would just keep the relationship and give up on sex, but all these words about how not to get one-itis and there are plenty of fish in the sea keep playing back over and over again in my head. So i basically broke up with her over sex. She is deeply hurt, her friends think im a horny asshole, i did this to make her feel a sense of loss, but now i feel its getting a bit out of hand. My question is: can the game really be applied at such an age when most girls are only 17-18 and the decent ones arent exactly sexually active. or is there a different set of values and rules for highschool game


P.S Im not infatuated over her, shes not exactly hot, she is quite reserved which is opposite of wat i really look for, in a sense i dont know how i found her, but she is a pretty sweet person and i honestly have second thoughts about wat i did

I don't think we can call this LMR. That is if you have tried frezzing out, because if you did try freezing out and she still doesnt want to do it then its definatly not LMR. LMR is last minute resistance - where the girl feels that she needs to stop because carrying on would classify her as a slut - a small barrier to break down and that is why the frezze out works. Simply stopping and saying a sweet line like " I understand, I gusse am just going to fast - it just that you have taken over my mind and I just cant help myself to feel so close to you." should do the trick.
What your facing is a moral ethic and this is not so easy to break down as its something she bases her life on. If you're looking for sex you should just go for another girl because people dont change there moral ethics easily.

thanks for the reply mate,

yea breaking that one would be a tough one, i decided to just date her now, while satisfying my needs elsewhere

if it was a relationship you wanted, you made a very bad move. a very, very bad move.

these tactics are here to get you laid. unless you just see a cutie in the store and wanted to "date" date her, you could use the stuff for AA, building attraction, etc. but 70% of the stuff is to get you in the sack.

I would actually argue that this is LMR. She says she wants to wait until marriage....that is what most girls say until the one guy comes along that changes their mind. Most girls don't follow through on that and wait until marriage. It is still LMR because she says she is waiting until marriage because she doesn't want to seem like a slut.

Anyway, is it right to break up with a girl because she isn't having sex with you? Everyone will have different views. From a woman's point of view, it does make you seem like an asshole. However, what if she broke up with you because you weren't being romantic enough? That is like the female equivalent. I propose that hypothetical situation because everyone has different priorities in relationships. Some value an emotional connection more than a physical one, but wanting a physical relationship is not some absurd notion! If sex is a priority for you, then you have the right and the ability to seek out other women who do view that as a priority too.

But if this is a LMR, then it should be easily be broken by a freez-out.