Hey all,

So i joined this forum to get copious amounts of advice, so I figure I will start with my current problem.

I met this girl last week and I learned she has a boyfriend. She came to my room one night to bring me a drink and after about 30 minutes, mind you i have never hung out with this girl, I had her rolling around in my bed fooling around and stuff. Lots of spooning and staring at eachother, I stole a couple of kisses but nothing more than that. This girl has a boyfriend that she has been dating for a long time. She stays in my room all night and we continue to flirt with one another.

During the week we see eachother everyday and it is clear that she is into me just by the way we look at each other and how we interact. Laying on each other, massages, sleeping on each other, and just playful flirting. ITs about two days in and we still havent kissed yet. So about the fifth day i tell her I am really into her to see what kind of reaction i get. One night we are with each other and just talking and i ask her what she is feeling. She says that it is not right, but it doesnt feel wrong. Pertaining to us being together. I ask her if she is attracted and all and she says very much so and its bad that she is. I think whatever and after some more time talking i finally kiss close on her for the night and walk her back to her room.

Here is my problem. I am going to be away from her for two weeks and before i left i kiss closed one more time. Yet, she still has a boyfriend. I try to text her just keep to keep the diaologe going, but I only text one text for one text. I don't send her a text every 10 minutes or anything like that.

Do you guys have any pointers on how I can still keep my game going throuh the phone and a way to get her to break up with her boyfriend so I can progress? She said she is attracted and she really likes me. So that is where I stand.

I apologize for the long message but I am a very detailed oriented person.

I dont agree with "can you help me break up with her boyfriend"
Thats Raw mate.

Instead i can tell you one thing, every relationship has its one flaw, find it.
Show her your better than that flaw, be mature.

Things i have done are bring up my pretend "problems", here you bring up something like;
"Flippin hell, my ex got in contact with me today, i hate it when it comes out the blue"
Bring up a bad memory and show her u trust her, she will do it back to you and bring up this flaw sooner or later.

But never got out and directly go for the boyfriend, the animal who makes the loudest noise is hunted first.
Be patiend and quiet, if shes worth it and you are the better man, youll get her.