To me, anyway, the following is a list not only of a perfect GF but a perfect person.



Highly intelligent - not necessarily academically or scientifically so, just means she has to be a thoughtful, self-aware person

Athletic body type - works out, eats healthily

Ambitious (but not a ruthless gold digger)

Non-religious - Spiritual is fine, belief in a higher being is fine, but a follower of an institutionalised religion, no way

Free thinker

An individual - not a crowd follower - not petrified of what other peope will think or say

Hard to get - all your canned PUA routines and bullshit have little to no effect

Impossible to manipulate - She will call you on your bullshit and can detect a slimy guy a mile away

Good intuition

Not insecure or neurotic

Enough self-confidence to be single (not always tied to a guy, not afraid to do her own thing)

Not boastful - boasting just makes the boaster look foolish and un-talented and insecure (unless you're literally godlike, like, say, Ali was)

Strong, quiet inner confidence

Quietly dignified

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The “Four Fs” are the four basic drives that animals (including humans) are evolutionarily adapted to be good at: fighting, fleeing, feeding, and reproduction.

Yeah I agree with all of that. The only one that is debateable is:


Enough self-confidence to be single (not always tied to a guy, not afraid to do her own thing)

Of course noone wats a clingy girlfriend and self-confidence to be single isn't necessarily a bad things, however it can have its bad points in my opinion.

A sense of reliance on the boyfriend I reckon can be a healthy thing for a relationship, if she is too much of an individual it could lead to her being a tad more emotionally distant than her boyfriend, thus that notion of "one" isn't omnipresent; which I think it should be.

Good point.


I probably could have phrased it a little better. What I meant was, the girl shouldn't feel the need to jump IMMEDIATELY from one guy to the other - like a monkey grabbing another branch before letting go of the last one.

Some girls derive too much of their self-esteem from having a "boyfriend", or at least some guy around who wants her, to validate her attractiveness.

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The “Four Fs” are the four basic drives that animals (including humans) are evolutionarily adapted to be good at: fighting, fleeing, feeding, and reproduction.

I like this list alot but I have to say (and I know it sounds incredibly sexist) but I do not like a woman who is "too ambitious".

Myself being such, it just ends up being a competition. I need my career to be number one. I am living in a dream world maybe: but I really want the stay-at-home wife.

I used to like dumb girls because I thought they were sexy but I have to agree now and admit the obvious: my woman has to be intelligent.

I would add a couple of my preferences too:

1-Loyal - Loyality to me is number one. The girl just has to be committed and able to follow through.

2-Conscientious - she has to be on-time, clean and organized.

Yeah those two are important too.

A loyal girl is almost as a rare as a unicorn these days, unfortunately.

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The “Four Fs” are the four basic drives that animals (including humans) are evolutionarily adapted to be good at: fighting, fleeing, feeding, and reproduction.

It's sad that many guys believe that today....and even sadder that they have a valid reason for believing it.

when i read this it almost brought a tear to my eye
i couldn't have said it better myself