Basically I have been fucking this HB9 for a little over a month now. Lately we have been hanging out pretty regularly (we pretty much have the same social circle) and have gone out on dates etc. At first I thought this was just a FB type of thing (I was also fucking some other girl, but that has since ceased, and as far as Iknow this HB9 isn't hooking up with anyone else), but I am considering trying to date her exclusively.

My dilemma is this:

When we first started hooking up, she was constantly texting me, calling me, wanting to hang out, wanting to hook up, etc. 95% of the time she was initiating the contact.

Lately though it seems as if she has been pulling back and I am not sure if it is an interest thing, or if she is wanting me to put a little more into it. All of a sudden I am the one texting and calling her to hang out or talk etc. and I am not sure if this is a good or a bad thing. She has never told me no when I ask her to hang out, and we fucked like two days ago so it seems like she is still interested. My question is should I freeze her out and wait for her to start initiating things again, or just continue talking to her and not worry about it unless she starts flaking on me?

I used to be a major AFC when I was in my last relationship, which ultimately led to her breaking it off. Since then I have stopped that behavior and have just been fucking other chicks. Now that I have found someone I could see myself dating, I don't want to start going all AFC again.

give her some reasons to want you. new ones or "remind" her. some DHVing, jealousy (this one could b good), steady push/pull etc. anything that will amp up that desire to b around you.
this is a powerful time to freeze out or make yourself a rarity. it drives up the desire more yet.
maybe she wants you to pull the relationship trigger and it's getting stale somewhat cause of that

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