About a month ago I picked up a cute girl at a bar. I k-closed and number-closed her right off the bat on the dance floor, and added a little finger action too for good luck..but lets keep that on the hush-hush now.

I was about to f-close her that night but her friends cockblocked me harder than a monthly period... and my wingman were nowhere in sight. So the next evening I invited her over for a low pressure movie-marathon...ended up f-closing her before the movies even started (Trust me. Its better this way!! You actually end up WATCHING the movies..) lol.

Anwyay, I told her when she first stepped through the door that I really wasn't looking for a relationship now and I didnt want to disapoint her if she was..although I was interested in seeing her again.
She said she felt the same way and its not a problem...

So we've been getting together about 1-2x a week; I give her the Rocks, she gives me the Gold, We=Happy. Then, a few weeks ago I ended up going to her house for dinner one nite and also met her rents, first impression was confident and solid. Lastnite we went for wings and beer, today after work im heading to her friends house for a pool party...anyway, im really diggin this situation we've worked out now. I dont see her too much cause I keep myself busy (work+gym etc) so when I do it works out nicely (make a woman wait a week.. and see how fast she pounces on you when she comes over)

1. Heres my concern currently; I dont want this to somehow turn into a relationship, even if we don't apply the label (aka her getting angry if im seeing other women, etc). I would say we are "dealing" now, and this is the best part of a relationship with another girl for me. As soon as it starts to get complicated with being exclusive and gf/bf, shit always ends up ending faster than it should. So how do I stay in this phase of the relationship, without it developing into something more? Because I've noticed the more time you spend with someone, the more emotionally attached you get to them...

2. Another concern, is this one of my potential MLTRs or is this going to be my One-Iti for the next little while? The reason I say this is because I havent had the motivation to actively sarg lately- why would I when I can get sex with just a question mark in a text message? Altho I have been messaging/talking with other women and pushing/pulling etc. I havent actually done anyhting since meeting this one. As it seems ot me right now, I have other women lined up that im constantly talking to but this is the only one im f-closing.

3. The Big Million Dollar Question- Why DON'T i want to be in a relationship with this girl? The only reasoning for me that I can think of is I believe I can do better. I see tons of girls everyday on the subway to work, coming back from the bars and they give me the bedroom eyes all the time- I deserve and SHOULD be approaching them.

To be honest, when I first saw this cuttie i thought she was average, like face= 7.5 but body=8.0 (D tits AND tighter than a 16yr old..Paradox? How thats possible..i still dont understand lol).

Heres the wierd part, shes starting to get prettier everyday, my perceptions are being altered by emotions and im starting to like those cute little quirker things she does all the time. Then again, maybe i just went for that one easy girl that was really cute and there are tons better out there i should be gaming now?...or maybe she just has a personality that outweighs those stupid HB10s I see prancing around every trashy club in the city? How do I keep my perceptions unbias..

I read somewhere (think it was the Game) that its not how much you like a girl that matters, but how they treat you and how happy you are with the relationship and the way it functions as a whole. So far the dynamic is perfect.

These are the questions I've been thinking about for the past month, and sorry for the huge paragraphs but I need some advice on this situation:

How do I keep this girl (or Smurfette as I address her) while also keeping my doors open...and how do I develop a group of these? What was that name of the mPUA who had like 5-6 MLTRS...i should read his stuff more.

MLTR or potential on-coming One-Iti?

This questions for the experienced ones only.