ok im going out with a girl right now and im trying to work out how to get rid of her with out hurting her becuase not only do i not like her any more but im kinda cheating on her, now dont worry im not 30 or something im a college student meaning anything that happens is temp and dosent really matter im year 12 if u must know.

now to reason why im asking not just saying some line like " i think out relation ship has become distant" is becuase im friends with all her frineds, whice means they will hate me if i just dump her ,becuase right now she has bipolar and if i dump her all of a sudden then she is likely to want to kill me or her self (shes kinda goth) i know this sounds like a soup opera .

but i actually need some good advice on how to (let go) of her or even better make her dump me whice would mean i would get out of it with out every body hateing me and she would feel better it maybe be a lie but it would be a white lie and plx i dont want people saying things like "just tell her its not working" it wont work !! so any suggestions welcome even if ur telling me what a bad person i am

funny suggestions welcome ,the worlds to bleek right now anyway

You are cheating on a clingy, bipolar, goth girl? That is one hell of a situation.

One approach that has always worked for me is to be mature and honest about the situation. Don't play childish games, just be a man and approach her with your thoughts. Be sensitive to her 'situation', but don't come across as a wussy boy who is afraid of how she might react.

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I agree with SiNfUl you got to be straight up. If you look soft on her then she'll keep milking your sympathy.

I got a clingy LTR at the moment. I'm thinking about breakup with her soon, I'll let you know how it goes down.

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