So I have been on and off with this girl, it was pretty serious and now it has moved into long disntance. She is unsure what she wants but still loves me and cares about me. We have made it clear to each other that we cant just be friends and pretty much talk as if we are dating. She has discussed and made future plans with me recently and she would hit me up a few times a day with cute texts or calls full of nicknames, i love yous and i miss yous.

Then outta the blue I didnt hear from her for a couple days...it was odd. But then I found out that no one heard from her, she just got really busy and never answered anyone back, a bitch move imo i would atleast let someone know what the deal was. Anyway she called me today apologizing and begging me not be mad at her and all that shit but she sorta stopped being all I love and I miss you and even called me kiddo on the phone tonight...so after all of this i am unsure what she wants and how to act and dont want to come off to needy and push her away.

What I am looking for is a way to get shit back on track. She never had me even close to whipped I was always in control and i dont think she liked since she has whipped every other guy. But I absolutley love this girl and she knows it so now the power has been passed. How can I get shit back. Im not looking to play games I just want things to go back to how they were before.

My plan was to stop worrying so much about the situation and play it cool. I am concerned she will decide she cant handle the situation and up vanish (something one of my ex's did and it was outta no where at the time) I just really want this leash off, and right away this isnt me. She is needy and the reason we had problems in the first place was becuase I backed off and made her chase me all the time and probably took it too far. I feel pretty stupid even asking about this becuase i know what advice i would give someone else, i find it hard to take my own advice sometimes...