Right ive been going out with my g.f for about 4 months now we were fuck buddies for 2 months previous so its been about 6 months.

Ive trusted her 100% since we 1st met but now i think im starting to lose this trust is it me being paranoid?

Heres the deal....

1.She nearly got with some lad before she met me, they whent on a few dates but nothing much happened they didnt evan kiss. Now hes like stalking her, sending her loads of rude and sltakerish txts and on friday she was out and she saw him and he was stalking her and fukin her about tryin to make moves that kinda shit. Later on in the night she phoned me and told me and she txt him saying leave me alone i dont want to speak to you ever again blah blah. Wich is fair enuff i appreciate that, But i got a txt the next day from my mates saying that she was grinding up and down this lad and she was sat on his nee and he had his hands everywhere. But she lied to me and said everytime he came over to talk she left...

2. This guy has a mate. A few months ago just out of curiousty i was like "oo how long u known "A" for then and she replied "since october" On friday she told me again that "A" was trying to get all over her at the same time the other lad was and was kissing her on the cheeks and grabbing her arse tits etc and she told me she was grinding on him. i said to her "Wtf why do that?" and she was like "ahhh ive known him for ages!! hes been my mate for like 4 years!!" i called her out on this by saying "wait...the other night u said you only known him since october..?" to wich she replied noo ive known him about 2 years!! later on in the night it changed to she had only known him a year :S summats abit dodgy there. Also i was looking through her texts and ther was messages of "A" like "Great night last night babie....same time next week ....Hope Chris aint there again" WTF....

3. I stayed at hers and i couldnt sleep and she starts talking in her sleep and said "Oooo yer hes fuckin gawjus.....Yeh ive got a BF but its fine chris wont find out....i do this to him everyweek and he never finds out" WTF does that mean!!

4. Shes started to be more protective over her phone and texts. We used to have a thing where if we were bored we just looked on eavh others phones and pissed about. Now she deletes her txts everytime before i come round and when she hasnt and im reading them she fights the phone of me and deletes them.

5. She has dirty pics on ma comp that shes sent me all of a sudden shes wanted em rid of, deleted all that kinda shit off my phone and comp...Also were pritty distant and thers sum weird arkwardness between us.

What dya think the problem is lads? I REALLY need help. Am i just being paranoid?
Cheers

Chris Griff

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Alright grifff. It is very clear what is happening. She is a lying whore and you need to drop her. She is for sure sleeping with other guys and will probably end it with you soon anyways.. who knows. She wants you to remove the "naughty" pictures you have of her so that when everything does go in that downward spiral that she foresees that you wont have these pictures to email to everyone you know!

Anyways you can do so much better than a girl like this, she obviously sleeps around and is showing now respect for you. You dont need her!

sleeping around i doubt because she was a virgin before i met her but kissing around or having sexual contact i can probably see. Hmmm im going to meet her now ive gone TOTALLY AFC on this girl and its the 1st time its ever happened!
FUCK ME
I now i can do better

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Have you tried talking to her about the texts that she deletes? I would say something along the lines of we need to be able to trust each other if we want this to work out, there should be nothing you have to hide from me. If what you've provided us with is the whole story, then id say she's thinking about leaving. Why else would she want you to get rid of her pics? If you want to keep this girl, which you shouldn't, but i know sometimes we want to keep the one that's bad for us, you need to be able to let her go, 'the one who loves least controls the relationship'. If she's doing that to you, then it should be fair game for you to do that with other girls. Reciprocal theory, don't do anything you wouldnt want done to yourself. Show her that other girls want you just as much, if not more than other guys want her.

Well on the other side she gets really jelous and is like "when u walk into a room i love the fact that ur mine when i know every other girl wants you" and she knows that other girls want in so i dunno if shes doin it to me to like get back at me

Im only 17 and have been doin pickup for like 2 years or so so ive had about 5 F closes wich im pritty proud of.

This is like my first proper relationship since pickup so im abit confused!

i saw her today and she was like "Grr i hate how much i love you....I Love you soo fucking much!"

So im CONFUSED!

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maybe she deleted the texts to keep you from getting jealous. There are possibilities, just dont be afraid to let go if you have to.