I started to date this girl for about two weeks. We always hooked up, held hands, etc. (no sex yet) We havnt established if were boyfriend girlfriend yet but im pretty sure we would of conisdered each other as couples after another week or so. Recently, ive noticed she is showing less intrest in me but more towards her friends (guys and girls) I dont know if she is trying to play "hard to get" mind games or watever but its beginning to annoy me. I feel that I am lossing her and need to get her back. She never really txt'd or called me first, I usually did. Now I dont want to come off to her as if im chasing her, so I decided to wait until she calls or txts me. We always went to this salsa gig on wed nights so theoretically she should call me by then. If not, I dont know what to do. Should I call her or wait for her to call?

What you guys think of this?

haha dont worry bro this can be taken care of....in fact I would say that 90% of new relationships run into the same problem. This has happend to me before in fact my current gf did this as well.

First thing you need to do is just chill out and not worry about it....yes you might really like her but you have to have the I dont give a fuck a attitude or you will turn into an AFC and do somthing dumb.

Second I would ignore her for a couple days and yes wait for her to get a hold of you...if she txt or call after 3 days then yes you can assume the relationship is going stale. At this point you need to either A) rebuild attraction or B) Drop her and move on.

How should you go about re-building attraction? Call her up and tell her you are taking her out...take her out show her the time of her life! Kiss her, tease her, and play the game.

Women and men are very diffrent! Women make decisions based on emotion and guys make decisions based on logic...You are thinks "Well we have been dating for two weeks and we like each other lets do this thing!" and she is thinking "Yeah I like him but he has not knocked me off my feet yet...mabey Il end up with him but in the mean time I will look around and see whats out there".

All women are like this! no mater how good looking or ugly, no mater how old or young....women are emotional creatures and unless you know how to tap into her emotional side then you prob will loose her....the good news is its not hard! that what PUA is all about.

nother thing...I normaly dont like to put rules in place when it comes to women but I often have a one month rule with women.

If you have been dating for a month and you are not sure about the future with a girl meaning you dont know if you want her as a gf or you dont know if she wants you as a bf then its prob not going to work out....the first 6 months months of a relationship is the honey moon phase and if you are both not into it then think what the relationship will be like 6 months from now....see what I mean?

yea I figured the best thing to do is just wait and let her contact me. Honestly I dont think she will call me back but we'll find out.

She may be playing hard to get, or she might just be normal and have a decent level of independence. Probably a little of both. I wouldn't hold your breath for her to contact you. Do your own thing as well. You can beat her at her own game by being really social, fun, and positive. Do something fun, and invite her to it at the last minute if you want to see her. If she can't join you, you still have a good time and it's her loss. Good luck!