I know it looks long... but please read this... because it matters deeply to someone, somewhere... matters to me... thank you...:

There's a girl at my workplace who I've fancied since she joined us this year. During the first week she was here... she told one of my colleagues that she found me very attractive, aesthetically. However, I don't have the best reputation in the office, and people have told her I'm not exactly a good guy. I assure you, this reputation is false.
Awhile back I bumped into her at a club... and after awhile we got dancing... it was heated... and i decided that i would try going for her.
So i asked her out the next week and she went with me, after having been pushed by her friends to "give it a shot". She found me to be nothing like what she's heard. Saying, "You're everything that I wanted my last boyfriend to be that he couldn't give me... and it's scarey... when you actually get what you wish for..."
We continued to flirt around and i gave her rides home etc. for about a month.
However, awhile later i found out there was someone else in the office who was hitting on her... and She started to talk about him.. saying that he was like every other guy and going out with him, she would know what to expect... but with me it would be a challenge, because she's never met a guy like me... adding that she meant that in a good way... but that she couldn't decide what kind of person i was because of the things she's told about me... and the person i am with her... telling me that she really hopes that i am the person that she's finding me to be...
The next day... i caught her going out with him... the other guy who was interested in her...
and the next morning after that she told me she thought it was best if we were just friends and that she didn't want to give me false hope.

Now she's going out with him... but i want her back...
I feel like she only went with him because she didn't want to put up with the challenge of going out with me... and if i had made her want it more then she might've decided that the risk was worth the reward.
Either that or she just wanted something for fun and felt that i was someone she could have something more serious with and didn't want to ruin it by going out with me right now...
i don't know how to play it from here, i know i have to make her regret her decision... and want me again.... but how????
She'll be with him at a party that i will also be attending... do i hit on other girls to make her jealous... should i try to get her away from him? DO ADVISE...

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